Cwis

Hi, I'm Cwis...

My name is Chris. You may know me as Cwis. I'm an ABDL blogger... welcome to my blog. 

I started blogging here in November 2008.

Originally this blog was really just a way to stay connected in the community if our sites went dark. If you were around then, you know that there were very few places for ABDLs to play. The ABDL sites of the day (DPF.com, Aby.com) seemed to be shutting down. The upstart sites (Diaperspace.com, RUPadded.com, Diaper-bois.com) were subject to server outages and other issues, and there were rumors that one or more of those may shut down, as well.

Tumblr had been established the year before, but it wasn't 'adult-friendly' yet. Fetlife had only been in existence for less than a year, and it hadn't really been adopted by ABDLs yet. For a short period of time in late 2008, talk was that the AB/DL community may be relegated to a few barely-working websites in perennial danger of shutting down...

I had made some pretty powerful connections on Aby.com and in other places, and I was afraid of what would happen if those websites went dark. How many friends would be lost if an ABDL website went 'poof'? I didn't want to fathom it, so I created my own web space that would allow people to find me no matter what. The result - 1,600 blog posts later - is the blog you're reading now: Abysitter.com.

Ten years later ABDL is worldwide, and our community is exploding. We have tens of thousands of members on sites from Fetlife to Tumblr, Facebook to Reddit. My ABDL Facebook has hundreds of friends; I'm also friends with more than 100 ABDLs on my 'vanilla' Facebook, and one of our 'secret groups' has nearly 2,000 members. That's crazy! Search for 'diapers' on any number of websites, or use the Grindr or Scruff apps, and you'll find diaper boys galore. In other words, staying connected isn't so much of a problem anymore.

At some point blogging here became less about staying in touch and more about making an impact on the community. Over the years so many readers have let me know that the blog entries they've found here - some written by me, and many contributed by others - have meant something to them. I like to think that what I write has a positive impact on the community. Whether it inspires someone to feel more comfortable embracing their 'little' side, or just gives someone masturbatory material, I appreciate each and every one of my readers.

I'm glad you're here.

Some of my best friends were made through the ABDL community, and many of them connected with me through my blog. 

What Is Abysitting?

As you can probably tell by the name, I am an 'abysitter'. That means I get into things like ageplay, age regression, and toddlerization. I also get into some humiliation, discipline, spanking, and the like.

I pioneered the concept of the 'big boy bucket' - you may have seen it reblogged on Tumblr and some other places. You can read more about it, and abysitting, here. 

I get into some side fetishes, a few of which I am only beginning to explore. So if you have interests which are outside of mine, hit me up anyway - I'm open-minded and always willing to try new things.

I'm down for talking to straight people, gay people, asexual people, etc., so if you fall into any of those categories, or a category all your own, it's all good.

#ABDLboat

I actually live on a cabin cruiser about seven months of the year. We jokingly call it the 'Luvs Boat,' and it serves as a floating cradle of sorts, outfitted with rocking diaper storage, a 'toddler bed', and lots of toys and other fun stuff for abysitting. I hold monthly get-togethers ABDL get-togethers [check them out here and here] and we have lots more planned. 

Want to visit? Cool, drama-free people only. Check the boat blog site, and inbox me! 

whyABDL.com/boat 

In the winter months (November - April) I'm typically snowed in at the cottage. I'm still up for guests, but I have to get to know you first. Hit me up if you'll be in the Syracuse, Rochester, or Ithaca areas and want to meet up for coffee or lunch or something. 

Want to be babysat? I'm down. 

Want to do a photoshoot? I'm down. 

Want to hang out and sip on Similac, or something more grownup? I'm down. 

Want me to visit you? I might be down. 

Inbox me: abysitter@gmail.com!

In Upstate New York?

I moved back to upstate New York in 2016 after nine years in Orlando. I currently live in the Finger Lakes region of upstate New York, mid-way between Syracuse and Rochester.

I'm always looking for cool people to chat and chill with, so if you live in central or western New York, plan to pass through, or just want to visit me, let me know. 

Travel/CAPCON

I do a bit of traveling, and since 2016 have attended CAPCON every year.

In 2017, I teamed up with Baby Spencey to teach a class on the History of the ABDL internet. You can check out the slides from our presentation here.

I'll be back in 2018, and expect to do a presentation, as well. And I hope to make it to some other events next year. Know of anything cool going on? Email me!

Here For The Contests? 

I do contests and shit. Want to see all of the entries? Click here. Want to sign up for my mailing list? Click here to get all of the latest on any upcoming contests, and other things I'm doing.

The last contest cost me more than $600 out of pocket, and that's with the prizes donated by so many amazing community sponsors. If you're here trying to figure out when I'll be doing the next one, the answer is when I have extra money, and when I have extra time. Want to help with one? Email me!


Here For The E-book? 

I compiled many of my favorite stories into an e-book!! It is approximately 350 pages long, in PDF format, and includes more than 20 stories about my experiences as an ABDL, as well as a few dozen photos all taken by me. Pricing is set at $9.99. The e-book will be available via a dedicated download link which will be made available to the purchaser via an email message within 24 hours of purchase confirmation. 

BUY THE BOOK!

Proceeds from book sales go toward my WhyABDL project - thank you for your support!


More About Cwis...

I've met people from the community who I've exchanged messages with for a short time, but who tell me they feel like they already know me from reading my blog through the years. I'm always honored when someone tells me that they've spent years reading it, and that it's had a positive impact on them. The best way to get to know me is probably through this blog. If this is your first time here, check out the stories page for some of my favorites.

Contact Me

I'm on nearly every website, usually as 'abysitter.' You can find me on Tumblr, FetLife, Diaper-Bois.com, ABDL.link, Reddit, Instagram, and a bunch of other sites.

I get a lot of messages. Unfortunately, that means that those messaging from profiles without pics or bio's tend to go to the back of the line. If you message, please, please, - please - have something in your profile. I've long grown tired of communicating with people who drop off the face of the earth without notice mid-convo, and that I've noticed a correlation between that and profiles that are devoid of personal info. Do us both a favor and upload a pic or some details about yourself before you send a message - or include that info when you hit me up.

I text voraciously, although sometimes sporadically, especially if I'm working or out on the boat. If you want to text me, please do so: 407-459-4675. Please introduce yourself, with your name and any social links up front - I get a lot of texts, too, and sometimes have to scroll up to remember which number belongs to who.

I'm also on Telegram, Signal, and KIK - ask how to get ahold of me there. You can email me, too: abysitter@gmail.com.

Want to sign up for my mailing list? Click here. You'll get emails regarding my contests, blog updates, and other stuff sent directly to your inbox. Get excited!