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Monday, July 30, 2018
Thursday, July 26, 2018
More Luvs Boat Weekend
More pictures from my most recent ABDL Boat weekend with Nick, Evan, and friends...
We had a little side trip
to the cottage,
where Evan, Nick, and I went swimming
in the lake -
yes, in diapers.
You can check out those pictures here.
Here's some bonus cottage shots -
pre-swim, obviously.
where Evan, Nick, and I went swimming
in the lake -
yes, in diapers.
You can check out those pictures here.
Here's some bonus cottage shots -
pre-swim, obviously.
The cottage is rented most of the summer,
but it's set aside for me and my friends
(ABDL and vanilla)
for much of July.
Come September/October I look forward to
getting back in there.
Until then, it's just the boat.
Below, Evan pitches in doing some boat chores,
cleaning up from a night of wine and pizza the evening before.
Pausing to watch a sailboat float by...
there's always something to watch on the 'Luvs Boat'.
The weekend the boys were here
we got to sit out on the forward deck
and watch a speedboat race -
about 100 speedboats going back and forth on the canal.
Exploring the 'Cuddle Cabin'.
This is the spot people can go to cuddle,
wrestle - yes, we've done that -
or just Netflix and chill.
Nick is hiding somewhere... he's a little camera shy.
Look forward to having Evan at my next event.
In upstate New York?
Visiting?
Want to the Luvs Boat?
Email me:
18+
Wednesday, July 25, 2018
Prizewinner: West Coast Jungle Gym
Congratulations to ABDLShadow! He's the winner of the West Coast Jungle Gym prize from my Abysitter.com Photo Contest!
West Coast Jungle Gym is a brand new ABDL convention being held in San Diego, CA September 7 - 9 of this year. Ticket sales close August 7, so visit their website and get in now for the inaugural year! Congratulations to ABDLShadow, and thanks to WCJJ for sponsoring the contest!
Monday, July 23, 2018
Luvs Boat: Weekend With BigBaby420
Fresh off our first weekend of summer 2018 on the Luvs Boat!
Joining me for the weekend were Nick/Nemo - a local who's been here before - and someone new: BigBaby420, who drove 5.5 hours all the way from Connecticut! (We were also graced with a visit from Lakhota, Will, and a new friend for an evening of wine and live music on the bow).
I'd met BigBaby420 in Chicago, and actually changed him at CAPCON. We'd talked about him coming to visit the boat, and he seemed pretty serious about it, but I'm used to people talking about it but not making that drive, so five hours plus? Sure.
But lo and behold, Evan made the drive. It helped that he had a last minute music fest change of plans. He arrived Friday night and got to spend two full days of little time on the 'Luvs Boat'. We watched a speedboat race from the bow, went out to eat all over the area, and even got to go swimming - in diapers, of course.
In addition to a few days on the boat, we had time to fit in a little field trip to the cottage for some swimming. Three of us went in diapers - Crinklz for me, Bambino for Evan and Nick. If you haven't been swimming in diapers before you have to try it - it's amazing. And in super absorbent diapers, you quickly find yourself enveloped by the most soaked diaper imaginable. It's a rush!
The 'walk of shame' (or pride, depending on how you feel about soaking wet diapers) back up to the cottage was something else...
The garbage bag with all of our lakewater-filled diapers weighed a ton.
Evan is a chill kid and it was fun to hang with him on the boat. I'll have more pictures from him soon, and he's already RSVP'd for our get-together next month!
Anyone else local or visiting upstate New York - or willing to drive more than a few hours? If so, email me: abysitter@gmail.com. 18+ and drama-free...
Thursday, July 19, 2018
Q&A With JamesFrost
[CWIS'S NOTE] Up today I have a Q&A with someone you probably know, JamesFrost. You may know him from Tumblr - jamesfrost3.tumblr.com - or from his Fetlife. We've met at CAPCON, where he holds a bit of a spanking party I haven't actually gotten a chance to attend yet. Check out his Q&A answers and his message at the end... enjoy!
Name/Nick: JamesFrost
Age: 26
City/State/Country: Chicago, IL
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? AB/DL, Little Pup, Leather Boy and Fem Boy.
And now for the questions. Just delete or ignore any which do not apply to you.
The questions are:
When did you first realize you were ABDL?
I didn’t stop wetting the bed until my early teens, so diapers and pull ups were always stocked in my closet. I would say that I started to realize that I had an affinity for diapers around age seven or eight. On the occasion that I had a dry morning, I would purposely wet my bed because I was afraid that my diapers would go away if I stopped wetting.
What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?
I stopped wetting my bed around 14 and my parents stopped buying my diapers. Fortunately, I had just started my first job at Burger King, so I would venture to the local CVS or Rite Aid on my bike either really early in the morning or late at night to buy my own diapers. Sneaking them into my room was always a challenge.
Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?
My parents found my diaper stashes a few times over the years. The conversation always ended with the understanding that I was experiencing some bed wetting again and they would leave me be after some time. Though there was this one time when my mom really wanted to figure out why I was 15, almost 16 and still wetting my bed on occasion. She set up a doctor’s appointment and to everyone’s surprise……they couldn’t find anything wrong with me. My doctor just suggested that I keep wearing protection until it stopped. (WIN!)
Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.
I went through four major purge cycles before I realized that this interest was a positive force in my life. I would throw everything away…and go buy more diapers/pull ups days later. I accepted my abdl lifestyle around 14-15.
For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?
I wore to class all the time! I met some of my bestest abdl friends while I was in college.
How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?
I dated vanilla boys for a long time and kept my little side a secret. It really weighed on me – I couldn’t be myself and my relationships suffered because of it. Around age 20 I decided that I would only date abdl, or other kink minded boys. I always discuss my abdl lifestyle and kinks before I start dating someone now. My amazing boyfriend, PupKeegan, fully supports my little lifestyle.
Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?
I wouldn’t say that I had anything particularly traumatic happen to me during my childhood. However, my parents and I have never had a close relationship. I do believe that my need to regress does relate to that at least in part.
For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.
I actually first went online looking for legitimate forums for other kids my age who were bedwetters. I think I was like 15 at the time. During that search, I stumbled upon Diaper-Bois.com and that’s when I truly realized my desire to wear diapers and age play. This was during the “Renaissance of ABDL Websites”. ABY had just been taken down, so I never had a chance to experience it. Shortly after finding D-Bois, I also made accounts on RU-Padded, Diaper Space and ABDLC. FetLife came years after that. Today. I mostly use my tumblr, D-Bois, FetLife and the private Facebook groups. I was originally DiaperBri3 on all of the sites.
Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.
Diapers and abdl are the root of all of my kink. I would have never become involved, or even thought to explore my other kink headspaces if I hadn’t discovered my little side. I was exclusively an abdl for almost ten years. About three years ago I made some amazing friends at Capcon who introduced me to pup play and it snowballed after that. I got into the leather scene, rediscovered my fem boy side that had been repressed from childhood (I use to run around the house and play as the female villains from power rangers), and I discovered that I loved spanking and impact play. I now run educational impact play sessions at events.
The last three years have been an awakening for me. I finally allowed myself up to open up and I have honestly never been happier. Through all of this I found my daddy and abdl family. I have three amazing people, who I would call pillars in the community, that protect and mentor me. I have learned so much about who I am from these amazing people in my life. The torch passes in this community. Their mentorship has helped me to become a better caretaker. I’m a big bro – I love and mentor five amazing little bros. I want them and anyone whom I meet that is new to the community, to experience the same love from this community that I have felt over and over again.
If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.
I generally age play as 2-3 years old or the teenager who was put back into diapers for bedwetting. My daddy has been able to regress me even further though. As our relationship builds, I feel a stronger connection to my little headspace.
Anything else to add?
You really do get back what you give to this community. I always say that I have been very fortunate to have met the amazing people that I have in this community. I have made friendships in this community that will last my lifetime. That being said, I have also met some really horrible people in this community. Do not let a couple bad experiences ruin your perception of the kink community. There is SO MUCH LOVE IN THIS COMMUNITY. We look out for one another. Whether local or continents apart, we’re a family. We love. We protect. We teach.
Stay Padded Friends, JamesFrost
Q&A With JamesFrost
Name/Nick: JamesFrost
Age: 26
City/State/Country: Chicago, IL
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? AB/DL, Little Pup, Leather Boy and Fem Boy.
And now for the questions. Just delete or ignore any which do not apply to you.
The questions are:
When did you first realize you were ABDL?
I didn’t stop wetting the bed until my early teens, so diapers and pull ups were always stocked in my closet. I would say that I started to realize that I had an affinity for diapers around age seven or eight. On the occasion that I had a dry morning, I would purposely wet my bed because I was afraid that my diapers would go away if I stopped wetting.
What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?
I stopped wetting my bed around 14 and my parents stopped buying my diapers. Fortunately, I had just started my first job at Burger King, so I would venture to the local CVS or Rite Aid on my bike either really early in the morning or late at night to buy my own diapers. Sneaking them into my room was always a challenge.
My parents found my diaper stashes a few times over the years. The conversation always ended with the understanding that I was experiencing some bed wetting again and they would leave me be after some time. Though there was this one time when my mom really wanted to figure out why I was 15, almost 16 and still wetting my bed on occasion. She set up a doctor’s appointment and to everyone’s surprise……they couldn’t find anything wrong with me. My doctor just suggested that I keep wearing protection until it stopped. (WIN!)
Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.
I went through four major purge cycles before I realized that this interest was a positive force in my life. I would throw everything away…and go buy more diapers/pull ups days later. I accepted my abdl lifestyle around 14-15.
For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?
I wore to class all the time! I met some of my bestest abdl friends while I was in college.
How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?
I dated vanilla boys for a long time and kept my little side a secret. It really weighed on me – I couldn’t be myself and my relationships suffered because of it. Around age 20 I decided that I would only date abdl, or other kink minded boys. I always discuss my abdl lifestyle and kinks before I start dating someone now. My amazing boyfriend, PupKeegan, fully supports my little lifestyle.
Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?
I wouldn’t say that I had anything particularly traumatic happen to me during my childhood. However, my parents and I have never had a close relationship. I do believe that my need to regress does relate to that at least in part.
For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.
I actually first went online looking for legitimate forums for other kids my age who were bedwetters. I think I was like 15 at the time. During that search, I stumbled upon Diaper-Bois.com and that’s when I truly realized my desire to wear diapers and age play. This was during the “Renaissance of ABDL Websites”. ABY had just been taken down, so I never had a chance to experience it. Shortly after finding D-Bois, I also made accounts on RU-Padded, Diaper Space and ABDLC. FetLife came years after that. Today. I mostly use my tumblr, D-Bois, FetLife and the private Facebook groups. I was originally DiaperBri3 on all of the sites.
Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.
Diapers and abdl are the root of all of my kink. I would have never become involved, or even thought to explore my other kink headspaces if I hadn’t discovered my little side. I was exclusively an abdl for almost ten years. About three years ago I made some amazing friends at Capcon who introduced me to pup play and it snowballed after that. I got into the leather scene, rediscovered my fem boy side that had been repressed from childhood (I use to run around the house and play as the female villains from power rangers), and I discovered that I loved spanking and impact play. I now run educational impact play sessions at events.
The last three years have been an awakening for me. I finally allowed myself up to open up and I have honestly never been happier. Through all of this I found my daddy and abdl family. I have three amazing people, who I would call pillars in the community, that protect and mentor me. I have learned so much about who I am from these amazing people in my life. The torch passes in this community. Their mentorship has helped me to become a better caretaker. I’m a big bro – I love and mentor five amazing little bros. I want them and anyone whom I meet that is new to the community, to experience the same love from this community that I have felt over and over again.
If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.
I generally age play as 2-3 years old or the teenager who was put back into diapers for bedwetting. My daddy has been able to regress me even further though. As our relationship builds, I feel a stronger connection to my little headspace.
Anything else to add?
You really do get back what you give to this community. I always say that I have been very fortunate to have met the amazing people that I have in this community. I have made friendships in this community that will last my lifetime. That being said, I have also met some really horrible people in this community. Do not let a couple bad experiences ruin your perception of the kink community. There is SO MUCH LOVE IN THIS COMMUNITY. We look out for one another. Whether local or continents apart, we’re a family. We love. We protect. We teach.
Stay Padded Friends, JamesFrost
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Tuesday, July 10, 2018
Luvs Boat Weekends... Summer Visits... And More...
To start off, I have three 'ABDL Weekends' planned - one each in late July, late August, and late September. These aren't 'open invite' type deals, but I am trying to get a little group of friends together for each. It'll mostly be a bunch of guys lounging in Luvs, drinking (suds or sippies, your call), and just hanging with other diaperboys - although we might mix in a field trip (drive-in movie or cookout or something like that), too.
I am also looking for people interested in coming to visit other weekends - again, local to the area or visiting at some point during the summer/fall. I've talked to a shit ton of people over the last year who visit this area or want to, but I've gotten some of y'all mixed up, and know I haven't reached out to everyone who expressed interest.
If you and I talked about this, please email me, text me, or get in touch on one of the websites:
There is also a 'Luvs Boat' group on Fetlife - click through to my profile and find it to join, or click the icon below:
In short, I'm looking to reconnect with old friends and/or make new friends this summer, too. If you're local to Syracuse/Rochester, or plan to visit my area between now and the end of October, hit me up. AS ALWAYS, 18+.
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