[CWIS'S NOTE] Up today, I have a Q&A from Kyle/Kai, a 22yo from St. Louis. On Fetlife, he's 5612KB. Hit him up there. Interested in doing a Q&A for my blog? Email me at abysitter@gmail.com, and put "Q&A" in the subject, I'll reply with the questions!
Q&A With Kyle/Kai
Name/Nick: kyle/ kai
Age: 23
City/State/Country: St.louis
id say about 60% DL 30% AB 10%fur/babyfur. when it comes to ageplay other kinks as well.
When did you first realize you were ABDL?
about 15-16 mid highscool age. Found pictures online.
What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?
asked my friends to drive me to the store after school, and said they were for my brother who was a baby at the time.
Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?
no one knows
Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.
im not sure ive been through this simply because i live at home and the few backs ive bought were very spread out. mainly because i watch money and know i would only buy these as since its just for a kink. also didnt have a job to supplement it for a long time.
For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?
not that i've come across or can think of
How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?
I feel it makes me look for more big type guys, even though im sure my age and looks/size woudnt bother me
Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?
I can see that i would like the softness and safety that comes with them because i was a hospital baby and kid so a "padded" kid haha, the lifestyle is the normal for me. but i was also a mature kid growing up (forced / choice of growing up in some ways very very early in life, not in a bad way though always good and behaved).
Some people have pointed out their observation that a larger-than-average number of multiple birth babies (twins, etc.) rep the ABDL lifestyle. If you are one of these, please explain what effect, if any, you feel this may have had on your ABDLishness.
not that i can see, use to be middle child on one side. only child on other.
For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.
found pictures on tumblr while surfing, didnt know how to react at first then remembered that i had a few leftovers from my bedwetting days since i didnt stop til 12 (health reason again) just decided to try one dayand really liked the feel of it. i didnt se it as annoying anymore like those earlier years.
Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.
i can pretty much take on any role or be into most kinks. Only the most extreme ones is when flags start to go up. i think thats what this is asking
What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?
i dont really know what i could number the % at most likely less than half though. only problem is i might do it too much at times lol
If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.
at times i feel like i use regresion instead of freak outs sometimes which ive only ever had one of just a small one but that defeated feeling that lead to it makes me feel like a different person. i know i cant control everything but thing i can but i dont do anything about is a terrible choice in my mind. feelinig and a bit acting out is a much better and probably safer substitute for me. not doing to many rash decisions. there might be a little more i can write about this but i cant think of the right words for it rigt now.
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