Q&A: Welshdiaper

UP TODAY: I have a Q&A and some dope-ass diaper photos from Welshdiaper, a 24 year-old ABDL from Wales/UK. I always like getting Q&A's from anyone, but I especially enjoy reading them from people not from the mainland US - it always fascinates me that our community is worldwide, and I wonder what types of experiences people in other countries might have that make them so similar to me. 

Q&A With Welshdiaper 

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Name/Nick: welshdiaper
Age: 24
City/State/Country: Wales / UK
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? AB, DL and curious babyfur. :)

And now for the questions. Just delete or ignore any which do not apply to you.

The questions are:

• When did you first realize you were ABDL?

I must have been around 14. For years, whenever I was walking around the streets, I'd see kids in pushchairs and be randomly jealous of them. I had no idea why. When I stumbled upon this world, everything clicked into place, and I realised why I was jealous, because I wanted to be little again.

• What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?

For a long time, I would just wear pads, kept in the bathroom, attaching them to the front of my underwear. As I got older, I got braver. At 17, I sold an old mobile phone for £15, and bought some tena pants, and although I may have loved them at the time, tape up diapers are the way to go for me. 

• Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?

I have been caught by my parents a couple of times, with disastrous consequences. As far as they are concerned, it's no longer an issue for me. My sister probably knows, she seems to be in the know, but she's never played it against me, so I try not to worry about her. 

• Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.

I have, to an extent. I've had periods of throwing everything away, and then just buying more in bulk after a short period of time. Honestly, I've just accepted that its a part of who I am, and though I only indulge in it from time to time now, I'll have weeks where I'll be inclined to wear daily, and weeks where I can ignore it. It's just about balance.

• For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?

When I was in university, it affected me a great deal. Having moved away from home, I finally had the freedom to explore this side of me better. I got my first tape up diapers at university, could wear as often as I liked, and managed to explore my baby side a lot better than if I was still at home.

• How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?

Very slowly, I have told almost all of my friends, the ones I trust anyway, about this side of me. One at a time, and with great hesitation. They have all been wonderful about it. My last partner was completely aware, as we were friends before getting together, and though things didn't work out between us, she indulged and actually got into this kink with me. She quite liked the innocence of being the baby, and how innocent it made me in turn.

• Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?

I've heard about this theory a lot, and it's always fascinated me to an extent. I was never traumatised as far as I am aware, I know that there was nothing particularly violent about my past. As a young child, I was very school work focused, and I was bullied for most of my school days. If that's played into me seeking to revisit my childhood now, I don't see the harm. 

• For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.

As I mentioned above, my interest first began around the age of 14. However I didn't really get much time on a computer until I was 16. From there, I found all sorts of websites, my first viewing of women wearing diapers, was from dailymotion, featuring models from wellpadded.com. From there, I did some research, and spent a lot of time on dailydiapers.com,  and as I got older, branched my way out into finding sites such as fetlife, abdlmatch, diapermates and this fine blog. 

• What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?

Sexual activity, as mentioned with my ex, was minimalistic, but happily added into the bedroom. Probably about 10% of our activities included it in some form or another. Masturbation whilst wearing is rare for me, as being little drives out all my sexual desires, but seeing women and men in diapers when masturbating is a solid 90+% marker. 

• If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.
For me, a lot of little things make me get into the little headspace. I say that I don't really have an "age" that I regress too, but it does feature a lot of crawling, very little, if any talking, complete diaper usage ( with permission from parental figure at the time) and a penchant for soft toys. Whether its the act of sucking on a dummy, being taped into a diaper, being spoken to like a baby, or even being led by the hand to be bathed, a lot of things can set me off. The main thing, and I cannot stress this enough for newbies and people curious, is that you know you are safe. Know that you have nothing to worry about, and regression becomes a lot easier.

ANYTHING ELSE?

Always happy to hear feedback, if people want to ask any more questions to be answered, feel free, and I'd be happy to do another Q & A in future. 

Thanks for the thoughtful responses!

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