KevJumba??

Internet celebrity KevJumba (also from the Amazing Race TV show) and his new onesie. Looks like one I've seen in pictures on a lot of the sites, I don't know... ;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPwd4DbDp38&sns=em

Merry Christmas!!!

I hope the holidays are finding all of you wet, and well. I hope you found diapers, footed sleepers, and plenty of toys under the tree. And I hope you enjoyed time with family, friends, and those who surrounded you this holiday season.

As always, I had many ideas for a new Christmas blog. And, as usual, I decided to go with the old standby.

The same blog entry I posted in 2008 when I began the blog.

Merry Christmas...

http://abysitter.blogspot.com/2008/12/ghosts-of-christmas-diapers-past.html

ABDL & Age: Submissions Wanted

Over the next few weeks I will be writing a few entries on our fetish/lifestyle/community, and the age factor.

Age.

We are a fetish community that is largely rooted in 'ageplay'. We are either adults who enjoy being treated as babies (in the case of ABs), or adults who enjoy wearing clothing reserved for babies (in the case of DLs).

Age is just a number, so they say - but within our community it is a very important one.

I'd like to know your thoughts on it.

I'm talking about disrespect and discrimination shown towards his older members of our community.

Likewise, I'm talking about younger members of our community who clearly state age boundaries yet have those disrespected by people outside of them.

I'm talking about younger people who aren't taken seriously by the older people they attempt to strike up friendships with.

I'm talking about older people who feel that they have been taken advantage of by younger people in the community.

Really, if you have any thoughts on any aspect of 'age' as it pertains to ABDL, I'd love to hear from you.

In my next blog entry on the subject I will be asking several questions on this. However, if you have any thoughts you've like to share first, please email me. Please share your thoughts, and feel free to include your username, age and location, and any contact information you'd like me to share. You may also include a picture of yourself, ABDL or not, and I will try to use it if I put your thoughts into my blog entries; this, of course, is not required. (You may also ask to keep your thoughts anonymous).

It is high time I wrote a thoughtful blog entry like I used to, and after the many responses I received from my blog entry on keeping it 18+ last week, from younger people and older people - a lot with thoughts on age - I thought this would be the best topic to start with.

Please don't disappoint me. My email is abysitter@gmail.com. I hope to hear from as many of you as possible.

Cwis

YouTube Featured Video: Cloth Diapers

A featured YouTube video this week:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YxIvhjkC7g&feature=youtube_gdata_player

RIP Scott Baio

http://www.sheknows.com/entertainment/articles/850057/scott-baio-death-by-diaper-rash

Seriously... death by diaper rash?

When Charles was in charge I used to have some pretty crazy big bro fantasies about this guy.

This is, of course, just an internet prank. But all day long #diaperrash has been trending on Twitter...

18

I am fully aware that there are more than a few people in our community who are not fans of my "18 and up rantings". (Someone showed me a screenshot of that phrase related to my blog in a chatroom recently, and I had to laugh...)

Fuck it. Did you know there are nearly a dozen members of the greater ABDL community under age 25 locked up for possession of child pornography, distribution of child pornography, or involving actual children in ageplay?

When you consider that our community is thousands of members strong, that's not a very big number. Probably not that much different from society as a whole.

But when you stop to think about the fact that the vast majority of us are engaged in age play anyway - an activity/fetish/lifestyle in which ages are blurred... in which an 18yo desperately longs to feel like a baby again, in which a 22yo can be a 'daddy' to a guy old enough to BE his daddy... it all gets pretty fucking confusing.

It makes sense to have some strict, universal limits.

For me, the number is 18.

Eighteen.

18.

A hard, fast limit. 

Of 18.

Have I said it enough?

18.

As an ABDL in my 30s I'm the first to admit I've been pretty lucky. 

Since I started doing the Pampz-for-pay thing in college... to my more recent encounters with other ABDLs, either on my various road trips or the many visiting Orlando... pretty fucking lucky: I've easily diapered more than 120 people, a number that includes a few dozen ABDLs and quite a few abysitting sessions, too.

I like younger guys. 

Preferably thug types. Sometimes jocks. Skaters. And guys who don't fall into any category. 

But collegebabies rock, and I've been lucky enough to diaper way more than my fair share.

Gay, straight, bi, asexual... they've all been different.

But whether I babysat/abysat, hung out in Huggies, or humped as I rubbed that glorious diapered ass (mmmhmmm) one thing has always been constant.

You already know what it was.

That's right... 18+.

I have diapered guys in their 20s, guys in their 30s, and have even gone older on occasion. But when you primarily diaper ABies who are college aged, you learn to check ID. 

Before I started my blog and started ranting about the importance of having standards, I had actually been hit up on at least one or two of the now-defunct websites from guys who admitted, eventually, to being under age 18. 

I'm no dummy. I know that there are a ton of community members who aren't 18. They're all over ADISC, Stanley's site, and other places.

I definitely don't hate people under 18.

We were all under 18 once. 

I remember wanting a 'big bro' as much as some of the collegebabies I have diapered have wanted a 'big bro' or daddy. The urge is pretty intense, for those of us who are truly AB. (I still have it myself sometimes... keep watching for the 'Baby Mikey' stories, which I promise to have finished by this weekend, for more on that.)

So yea... I understand that our community is full of people who are under 18.

Which is why it's even more important that we all have standards.

I look at it as being similar to the big kids' table at big family dinners. As children we are often relegated to sitting at a children's table, a table like the adult table but with more juvenile conversation and usually not as prime pickings when it comes to food.

As we get older we are eventually allowed a place at the grownup table. 

Some of us desperately try to prevent this, wanting to stay at the kids' table for life. 

But, eventually, we all have to move up.

Today's kids' table ABDLs are 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, even 17.

They're on the Internet. 

They're impersonating adults, sometimes.

They're using the same pictures I saw on sites when I was in college, and they're calling them "new".

They want a place at the grownup table: the adult sites (RUP, ABDLC, and others). 

They're relegated to the kids' table for now: ADISC, Stanley's site, and others.

And that's how it should be - mostly.

Now, picture it.

You are sitting at the grownup table, and you look over at the card table filled with your cousins, nieces, nephews. 

Wait a minute... who's that?! Isn't that Uncle Bob? He's almost 50! How did HE get a seat at the kids' table?!!

Just like there will always be kids who try to work their way into 18+ sites, there will always be adults attracted to kids who head for sites where children congregate.

That is true in our lifestyle, and in society in general.

People who do this are generally called pedophiles. True, sometimes there are people who have true altruistic motives, such as trying to keep younger people safe, but it's often hard to tell the difference.

I have stopped trying to tell the difference.

I have hard, strict, unyielding standards when it comes to age. If your ID not say 18 you're not getting a pack of cigarettes (unless you're in the hood), you're not voting, and you're not getting abysat by Cwis.

I know there are a number of people who think my age limits are stupid. 

These include younger ABDLs who wants to be babysat, and older ABDLs who think I am telling them how to live their life and/or ruining their chances with those they seek to diaper. 

I have my share of haters, and I've been linked to chats and forum conversations from people who think my blog makes our community less community-oriented because I "espouse exclusion" - another expression I've LOL'd at in the past.

I'll be straight up. If someone tells you that my blog is stupid because I advocate keeping a boundary between of those older than 18 and those younger, be suspect of that person.

I once spent a whole weekend with a collegebaby visiting Orlando. We had a lot of fun, and after it was all over, as I dropped him off at the airport, he told me that he was surprised it had been fun.

"A few people told me that I shouldn't meet up with you," he told me. 

I didn't have to ask him who. I named a name or two, and he rounded that out with another names or two.

"Let me stop you right there," I told him. 

And sitting in front of the departure/drop off at OIA I did a quick Google search, finding an article about a young person arrested for child pornography. My new friend read it, looking confused.

"See the mug shot?" I asked. He nodded. "See the arrest date?" I asked. He nodded again.

I took my iPhone back and opened to a diaper site, clicking a few links until I'd come to a group shot. I handed him the phone.

"Recognize anyone?" I asked.

He looked through the more than a dozen faces until he'd spotted the one he'd just seen. 

He froze.

"See the date that picture was posted?" I asked him. He looked, and then looked at me.

"Chris... that's fucked up..."

"You have been getting advice from the other people in that picture," I told him. He looked again.

"That's really fucked up..."

18 +.

I often wonder if the kid in the article I just mentioned would have been jammed up if he been surrounded by people who had taught him about setting age limits, instead of by people who taught him that age is just a number.

Reading the article I've linked to below brought me back to that same thought. It is about an Eagle Scout arrested at age 19 for trading diaper pictures with a 13 year old fetishist. 

He was just sentenced to more than 12 years in federal prison.

It's fucked up. 

It's the reason 18+ is so important.

And the reason it only works if we all enforce it.

I will be writing more about the dynamics of age as it relates to ABDL in the future.

For now, click the link, read, and consider...

All I Want For Christmas Is... a $17K Paci?

http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/12/14/the-11-most-extravagant-gifts-money-can-buy/#babywit-diamond-pacifier

Hall of Shame

I've said it before and no doubt I'll say it again: 18 & up!

• Do not diaper minors.

• Do not diaper the handicapped.

• Do not take pictures of either of the above.

We are all ambassadors of this community. When one of us does sick shit, in the minds of some we've all done it. 

Don't do it.

A few stories about one guy who did do it... and got 12 years...

Rosemount, Minn., man sentenced for shooting videos of a girl in a diaper | Rosemount Town Pages | Rosemount, Minnesota

In a Feb. 1 meeting Marquardt told police he was aroused by diapers. He said he had been downloading images of children from the Internet for 10 to 15 years, and said he recorded the girl – and in some cases uploaded the photos and videos to online sites – because he thought she was "cute."

Marquardt's computer also contained images of him wearing a diaper.

http://www.rosemounttownpages.com/event/article/id/29255/group/News/

'This is taboo... wrong... and sick': Minnesota judge orders jail time for baby-sitter with diaper 'thing' | Grand Forks Herald | Grand Forks, North Dakota

http://www.grandforksherald.com/event/article/id/223260/group/homepage

Update: Toronto Millionaire Case

Update on the case of the Toronto millionaire ABDL... charges stayed...

http://www.nationalpost.com/m/wp/news/blog.html?b=news.nationalpost.com/2011/12/06/murder-conspiracy-case-comes-to-puzzling-end-as-prosecutors-stay-charges

Update: Guilty

Update on the case I posted in the entry below.

http://www.bnd.com/2011/12/03/1965180/crutchfield-could-receive-life.html