Up today, I've got a Q&A - and five superhot diaper pictures - from Alexander, aka Zander. Zander and I are friends on RUPadded and Diaper-Bois. I've loved his pictures for a while now, and now he's agreed to have some of them featured here - as well as post an introduction to himself. He's looking for friends, so if you want to talk to him hit him up - just don't use baby talk!
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Q & A With Alexander
• When did you first realize you were ABDL?
I don't quite recall when I first realized I was an AB, but I definitely do remember, distinctly, when my younger brother was around 3 or 4 he was still wetting the bed and had to wear pull ups. I, of course, being the curious little guy that I was, wanted to wear them too. And so I did. I snatched some and have been hooked ever since. I also sucked on a paci until I was about four and a half years old.
• What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?
As a kid I'd steal them whenever I could from family. Whether it was from my sister who had a few children or my younger brother when he was still a bedwetter. Whenever I had the chance I'd put a diaper in my pants, sneak off to the bathroom, and try it on. When I couldn't get my hands on any I would fold a towel and wear it like a diaper.
• Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?
They don't know, but I don't think anyone would react too adversely except for my mother. My mother is a "woman of the lord" and I'm pretty sure she would say that her lord isn't okay with grown men (or babies, in this case :P) in diapers.
• Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.
Definitely. Although right now I'd definitely have to say I'm going through the binge portion of the cycle (my soaked diaper can attest). I have a tendency to get pretty upset with myself for getting so much enjoyment out of wearing and quitting for a few months.
• For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?
Not particularly. I mean, I'm still in college and it hasn't changed--at least as far as I can tell--my college experience whatsoever. I still go out and party, I still go to class. Never done any of it in a diaper, though. I think I'll try that!
• How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?
I wish I could say my fetish has had some sort of affect on my dating life! How great would it be to be with someone I felt comfortable telling? So far it has yet to rear its head in anything but my private life... aka the life I live while my bedroom door is locked.
• Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?
I'm no Psychologist, but I can't really say that diapers would be the first thing anyone would refer to in the face of a traumatic experience. That's not to say I had the best of childhoods--definitely not the worst, though. My sister was in and out of rehab, mother an alcoholic and married to a meth addict, parents divorced and always trying to pit us against the other; all of that topped with the shame and stress of hiding my sexuality (I'm gay) definitely put me through the wringer. I've always wanted to wear diapers.
• Some people have pointed out their observation that a larger-than-average number of multiple birth babies (twins, etc.) rep the ABDL lifestyle. If you are one of these, please explain what effect, if any, you feel this may have had on your ABDLishness.
Wait, there are twin ABies? I'd definitely like to see that!
• For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.
Surprisingly I discovered DPF first, I think it was near the tail-end of its run, at the age of 14. Then I ran into Deeker, and even at that age was kind of weirded out a bit by some of the story plots/themes. Then I discovered aby and BAM I suddenly felt like I wasn't such a freak. Unfortunately, I still haven't had the opportunity to explore the scene with anybody in real time, but I'm holding out!
• Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.
Okay, I'm a huge fan of the idea of diaper discipline. Having a dominant guy force me into a diaper and force me to use it is just incredibly exciting. I wet my diapers when I wear, but I've never messed mostly because I think the clean-up would be a bitch (excuse my French). Baby clothes, pacis, bottle feeding, etc. I can't really say that I know EXACTLY what I'm into since I haven't really been afforded the opportunity to explore much (who knew a fetish could be so expensive?). Hopefully I'll find someone someday I can discover more of myself with.
• What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?
Quite a small percent. I would probably say about 2%, but that may be overshooting the mark--probably because I masturbate a bit much. What can I say, though? I'm young, I'm horny, and my hand is always there for me!
• If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.
This part is a little strange for me. So, I'd love to be "babied" in that I'd like to be changed, bottle fed, try crib-time, suck on a paci and wear onesies, but I can't say that I'd have an easy time getting into "baby mode" unless it was something that was forced on me. I definitely value my own intelligence and being able to have an intelligent conversation with my partner and/or my friends. Plus, I feel like people talk down to babies, and being talked down at is one of my biggest pet-peeves.
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