Q&A With BabyIan001
Name/Username: Babyian001
Age: 48
Baby Age: 2
Location: London UK
I seek a nice Daddy, firm but fair to form a relationship with and to live the lifestyle where possible. I am a committed baby and therefore Daddy must be too, I am friendly fun loving baby so don't be shy get in touch. Please be realistic in terms of distance and be single. I look forward to hearing from you.The questions are:
When did you first realize you were ABDL?
I began being a dl from an early age of 15, as I was a late bedwetter I was made to wear for bed at night. When I stopped wetting I simply missed my diapers and began to wear again. I use to use my baby sisters at the time without anyone knowing, It just made me feel safe and comfy. I did not become a AB till years later, guess it was a progression but loved it very much being babied by a Daddy . I so long to have that feeling again.
What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?
I use to use my sisters diapers and brought some plastic pants from the store.
Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?
My family or siblings do not know that I am abdl and neither do they need to know, it is my fetish not theirs, apart from that I live a long way from them.
Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.
I use to feel that I was weird and the only one with this urge to wear diapers and plastic pants, It was before the internet, so felt alone and guilty /different.
How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?
I shared my fetish with one or two relationships who were cool with it and we had fun with it, others I did not share it with them.
Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?
I do not feel that I was abused in any way and as previous said I wore diapers because I was a late bedwetter which I do believe may have contibuted to my love of them
For the older generation, please tell us more about what it was like being ABDL before social networking. I will be looking for the perspectives of members in their 40s, 50s, and even higher.
Before the internet there were a few adverts in magazines and also their was an abdl monthly subscription that I use to buy with adverts to meet like minded people. Of course it was nothing like the access today with the internet, but I did meet some cool dudes.
Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.
My biggest fantasy around the whole abdl fetish is to be made to wear and although I like the idea of diaper punishment I am yet to experience that in its entirety. To be treated as a baby with no choice is my ultimate goal. It is so hard to find Daddies most of the time, so finding one who lives close into this is even harder Grrrrr!
What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?
I fantasies about the above all the time, and just hope that one day it will become reality.
If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.
Being regressed fully makes me feel special and safe, it helps forget the stinky big boy responsibilities and life challenges. It also makes me feel complete.
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