ABDL Boat Weekend August 2018 - Part III

[CWIS'S NOTE] If you haven't checked out the 'Part I' of my August ABDL boat weekend yet, you can read that here. And be sure to check out 'Part II', too! For scenes from the 'Luvs Boat' going back to 2016, visit whyABDLcom/boat. 

After some serious snuggle time in the 'cuddle cabin', it was time for a few of the boys to head out. Left for the weekend were Nemo and SilverDL, my visitor from New York. 

I have to mention that I'm impressed with the lengths Silver went to in search of a weekend in little space. He took the bus from NYC to Syracuse, and then braved the 45-minute car ride to the boat, spend an entire weekend in diapers taking in the countryside, and then did it all in reverse less than 48 hours later. (That rivals Evan's visit from July [part I] [part II], when he drove all the way from CT for a weekend with us). Love expanding my network and offering a slice of little space to new friends. 

Anyway, Silver spent the rest of the night in the 'cuddle cabin'. He'd enjoyed the 'crib' but found it hard to become accustomed to the noise of the boat rubbing against the fenders on the dock - something that tends to happen with an east wind, and is amplified by the hull. The 'cuddle cabin' has its own challenges - the water laps against the v in the hull and can be a bit loud. Still, he slept like a baby in it, and Nemo got to enjoy the 'crib' for the night. (Nemo lets visitors from afar have their choice of beds, since he lives 30 minutes away and could spend any night he wanted here). 

The next morning we enjoyed breakfast at a 50's style diner - a local favorite - and then returned to the boat for some chill time. Nemo and I convinced Silver to pose for some pictures popping up out of the hatch over the bed in the 'cuddle cabin', and almost convinced him to hop up onto the deck for some diaper pictures in the open air. Boats floating by made him rethink that plan, so we headed back down below. It was a hot, hot day - mid 90's, unseasonably hot for August, even - so we hung out in the salon, Silver stripped down to just his diaper and lounging directly in the path of the a/c blast. We sipped sodas and talked until it was time to head out for the bus station. 

Definitely hope SilverDL makes it back to the boat before he moves to Orlando. Follow him on Fetlife, and if you're in upstate New York or within traveling distance - a distance that seems to keep getting further and further out hehe - check out the boat blog page and hit me up. 

ABDL Boat Weekend August 2018 - Part II

[CWIS'S NOTE] If you haven't checked out the 'Part I' of my August ABDL boat weekend yet, you can read that here. 

The 'cuddle cabin'. 

The 'cuddle cabin' is the forward stateroom on the boat. It serves as the 'guest room' when out-of-town visitors are staying over - it's a room with a big v-berth that sleeps two on separate but adjoining berths, but can sleep three (or, as you'll see from the photos below, more) when everyone is willing to... well, cuddle. 

When the door to this cabin is closed it's hard to imagine how big it is - people are usually surprised when they see that the boat has two large staterooms in addition to the salon. 

Last year the 'cuddle cabin' served as a little movie theatre for me, Choo Choo, and Mono - great acoustics because it's such a tight space. 

Later it would serve as a wrestling ring for Z and Nemo - both wrestlers in high school, they oiled up and went at it, body slamming each other into the sides of the boat with such force that I was worried for the hull structure. (They finally stopped when they realized that people walking the dock just outside the porthole were probably wondering what the fuck was going on inside this boat - but, adorably, I think each thought that they'd graciously let the other win). 

Z and I would spend a fair bit of time here, too, binging Community and some of his other favorite shows on his laptop as he swigged down bottles and chomped on candy. 

The 'cuddle cabin' doesn't typically attract a crowd during my get-togethers, at first - we tend to crowd into the salon, sitting around the coffee table drinking and socializing. Or we'll gather up on deck, sitting around the bridge or the forward deck bench listening to music from bands playing at the bar across the canal. But toward the end of most visits, as people begin to tire, the cuddle cabin is often where they retire to. Nobody wants to be the asshole who monopolizes the 'crib' - the one bed on the boat that resembles a nursery space. Everyone, though, can fit into the 'cuddle cabin'. 

The shots above are taken from above decks, 

through the hatch. 

The photos below

are taken from the entrance to the 'cuddle cabin'. 

Eventually it was well after midnight, and time for people to head out. Nemo and SilverDL would spend the night, one in the crib and the other in the 'cuddle cabin', but the rest had commitments the next day that would make spending the night impossible - as much as it seemed like they wanted to. 

Lakhota: "Chris... what did you post? I have a thousand notifications..." 

Below, the boys check out pictures from the night posted to the secret Facebook groups, groggily taking in the comments and reactions - and, new friend requests lol. 

My next get-together is just a few weeks away, and all who have attended this are invited to return. Should be a good time... if we take photos, I'll share them here. 

Be sure to follow/add these guys... 

• NemoDaFish on Fetlife
• Lakhota on Tumblr
• Aboimikey on Tumblr
• Tommy - coming soon
• SilverDL on Fetlife

ABDL Boat Weekend August 2018 - Part I

If you've been reading the blog a while you probably remember that I had a few ABDL Boat weekends last year, in August and September. I also adopted a little for a little, and had so many little weekends that my vanilla friends started to complain. Oh well... priorities hehe.

In 2018 things moved a little slower, with visits from Mikey early on [part 1] [part 2] and then a sparsely-attended weekend in July. Still, with Evan being willing to drive all the way from CT, and interest from abies from up and down the eastern seaboard, I started opening it up to people from outside of the area, complete with a Fetlife group for the Luvs Boat.

Enter SilverDL, who joined us all the way from NYC, this past weekend. 

For August 2018 I was lucky enough to have six ABDLs gathered in one floating spot. They came from Rochester, Syracuse, Buffalo, and NYC. Nick/Nemo and SilverDL spent the weekend, and Lakhota, Mikey, and - someone brand new to the boat - Tommy joined us Saturday afternoon/evening. It was an amazing time, and probably the most relaxed I've been in a while.

First, on Friday night, SilverDL got to try out the 'crib' - the first person to spend the night in it since I changed it over to a nautical theme.

On Saturday Silver, Nemo and I went for a long drive down the lake, eating lunch on the dock at a local waterfront restaurant and then stopping at a farm-to-table ice cream stand where the ice cream is actually made from duck eggs laid by the ducks who squawk at you as you're eating. We each had a sundae consisting of coffee ice cream, wine sauce, and espresso bark - it was amazing.

Nick and I are both local to the area, so we tend to take the 'country' for granted, but Silver comes from a place where the sun is blotted out by high-rise structures, and his Snap story reflected his amazing at miles of lakefront, rolling corn fields, and cows - it was cool to see. 

A quick trip to Wegmans for supplies was in order before we raced back to the boat for a night of pizza, beer, and diapered conversation.

Boats passing by through the canal would have been treated to quite the view if they peered over into the inside of the 'Luvs Boat' - five littles just hanging in Huggies like being diapered on boats is just how things are around here.

At one point we realized that, of the five in the photos above, four had been diapered in PeekAbu's - and, coincidentally, each rocking a different animal. So you know we had to pause for a little ABU representation, snapping a few pics for the Facebook secret groups and our Snapchat chats.

That's a whole menagerie of animals - rawr! 

After everyone had their fill of pizza and beer - someone (not naming any names) so much they actually leaked onto the furniture! - it was time for changies, before retiring to the 'cuddle cabin' for some real relaxation.  

I'll have those pictures and more later this week. In the meantime, check out my Tumblr, and be sure to add/follow/like my little floating friends, too...

• NemoDaFish on Fetlife
• Lakhota on Tumblr
• Aboimikey on Tumblr
• Tommy - coming soon
• SilverDL on Tumblr

Q&A With Calidiaperboy91

[CWIS'S NOTE] Up today I have someone brand new to the blog: calidiaperboy91. You may know him from Tumblr. He's taken a moment to do a Q&A that I think you may enjoy - check it out below! 


Name/Nick: calidiaperboy91
Age: 27
City/State/Country: Southern California
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? AB/DL

Social Media: Tumblr - Calidiaperboy91
(Feel free to follow my blog. I try to follow back and keep my blog interesting.)

When did you first realize you were ABDL?

Wow. For me I never new what ABDL was tell just a few years ago. I have loved diapers since I was in 6th grade. I always thought it was just a phase and that I would put grow it. When I turned 18 I once again started buying good nights and really found out I lived diaper more than I thought.



What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?  

As a teen I use to steal good nights from stores and wear them under my clothes. Once I was 18 I would buy a pack of goodnights and hide them in my room since I had roommates and didn’t want any one to find out.


Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?  

No. I have never really been close to my family and have really made sure that I keep this from them.

Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.  

Yes. When I was younger I alway felt like this was not normal and that I was not going to be normal. I would throw my goodnights away and then get sad because I really wanted them back.


For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?  

I didn’t go to a regular college so it really did not. When I did try the regular college it did not. I never wore to school or out as I was always too scared.


How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?  

My married life is great. Going on two years in a happy marriage with a guy who full accepts me. I told my husband before we got married and he kind of freaked out. However I explained to him what this means to me and how it helps me as a person. He has learned more about it and even tried wearing a few times. It is not his thing but he always encourages me to be in a diaper as it really makes me happy and he loves seeing me happy. As for my social life I have a very vanilla set of friends that do not know of this kink.

Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?   

I can see why. I had a very rough child hood. I was in foster care from the age of two all the way to six. I went through a lot growing up and was the middle kid who never got anything.


For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.  

When I discovered abdl on the internet it was just a about two years ago. I just lurked in Tumblr and finally one day decide to make an account and see what would happen from there. Needless to say it was very good and I have enjoyed getting to know the community.

What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?  

I would say about 15 percent. It has not caused any problems as me and my husband understand that this can be a little sexual for me but it really does not have to be all sexual. I am very sexual and love sex and different things about it.



If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.  

I have started learning about regression and really loved learning more about it. I have used diapers and onesie and a way of helping me regress and make me forget my adult problems temporarily. I have also got a new paci that I have really loved to.  

Don't forget to follow him on Tumblr:

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What makes people...

...deactivate their Tumblr accounts just a day or two after starting a message thread? It's happened to me twice this week. Am I being trolled? Does the 'purge' happen that fast? I don't get it. #RandomThoughts

A Whale Of A Tale...

As some of you know, I've been working to try to create a more nurturing environment on the 'Luvs Boat'. After some awesome get-togethers and some amazing big/little experiences in 2017, I decided that the 'crib' should feel like even more of a crib, and then 'nursery' even more like a nursery. 

It's a boat, so I knew I had to go with a nautical theme. I've always loved sharks, but sharks are scary, and it's hard to find cute nursery stuff with sharks on it, probably for that reason. (The exception being, of course, Shark Tale and Bruce from Finding Nemo). At some point I decided whales are the next best thing. They're cute, lovable, and they live in the same waters as sharks. Plus, there is so much whale stuff available out there... 

I wanted to get started earlier in the summer, but between work and freelance projects it took me a little while to get organized. I finally started shopping and Amazon clicking in earnest in August. 

Recently added: 

• whale sheets
• whale crib bumper
• whale crib mobile
• whale nightlight 

I just ordered a second set of the sheets - they're so soft that just laying on them makes me feel little! And I'm on the lookout for some whale wall art, too. Seen anything amazing? Inbox me! 

The woman who sold me the crib mobile emailed to ask what size clothes the baby wears, because she has lots of boys clothing, too. I wrote back to thank her but explain that I wasn't looking for clothing in any particular size, just trying to make my boat more 'baby-friendly' for friends when they visit. She replied to tell me how conducive boats are to babies sleeping. Ha! Don't I know it... 

The 'no wake zone' sign on the far wall may find another spot in the nursery, not sure yet - I've found two wooden ones I like a lot better, they're just a little pricey. For anyone who doesn't get the hidden message, 'no wake zone' is a boating reference - canals and other such places are considered 'no wake zones' because the wake from boats traversing them at too high a speed can damage docks, boats, and shorelines. On the boat, of course, 'no wake zone' refers to keeping the nursery quiet. Anyway... 

Next up: trading in the toddler rail for an actual crib rail. Hope to have that done before the end of the season. That, plus some whale-themed wall art, and I should be good to go. 

After spending the tail end of 2017 taking care of Little Z I found it pretty much impossible to sleep in the crib between his visits - I'd taken on the role of 'big', and trading back and forth between 'big' and 'little' was actually a lot harder than I thought. I figured it would be easier this spring/summer, but it still felt... off. Still, I just had to try an overnight in this bed, though - and man, it's the best night sleep I've had in a long, long time. Being lulled to sleep by the lapping of the waves, in those soft sheets, with my li'l glowing whale friend lighting up just enough of the crib to let me take it all in... zzzzzz, good night. 

My first 'Luvs Boat' get-together since all of this stuff came in is coming up, and I'm looking forward to sharing this with other people... hopefully will have some cute pics to share soon. 

Anyone in upstate NY, or visiting, who wants to come spend the night in the 'nursery', hit me up! 

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