Showing posts with label Spotlight. Show all posts
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Thursday, September 17, 2020

Spotlight: Casey Strom & ABUniverse

[CWIS’S NOTE] Up today I have an interview with Casey Strom, CEO of ABUniverse. Casey is a long-time member of the community, and has been owner of ABU since 2015.

Have spotlight ideas for me? Email me at abysitter@gmail.com.




CWIS: You’re generally considered to be the Steve Jobs of the ABDL world, a magnate of sorts in the adult (baby) diaper manufacturing business. Can you tell us a bit about how you got started with ABUniverse?  

CASEY: Around the time I was 18, I began doing some marketing work for the previous owners of ABU assisted with some product launches. I lost touch with them for many years, exchanging at most pleasantries around the holidays.  In 2013 or so, the company I owned at that time moved into an office building that had an attached warehouse, and by complete coincidence, ABU was the occupant of the warehouse adjacent to us. I reconnected and offered assistance.  After going on a long out of state trip to another one of our offices, I returned to find that ABU had jumped their lease, and there were tons of complaints everywhere online about them not shipping orders out. I made a few calls/texts to the owners, but didn’t hear anything back.  I knew that they were going through a divorce, but the wife ran things day to day at ABU. In 2015 I was able to reconnect with the husband to discuss some possible career changes in my life, as his day job and mine were in the same industry, and I was more or less looking to see what the job market was like. We had dinner, and over the course of many hours of talking, the conversation kept swinging back to him suggesting that I become a turnaround CEO for ABU, as they had been trying to sell the dying company without much success. I just joked they could not afford me.  Over the night, I did ponder the very real possibility of buying it outright. I talked to my family and decided that it could be a very wise move, or it could be something that if it didn’t work, we would allow the brand to finally come to a complete halt and die. After A VERY crazy 48 hours, I bought all of the assets from the company (remaining inventory, customer database, intellectual property rights, etc). Within two hours the company was shut down so we could begin to sort out the mess.  The next few weeks were unimaginably insane. Finding out the scope of damage done to customers that didn’t get their orders after paying and waiting many months - and in some cases years. It was all very shocking. I had some amazing help at that time as a new team formed to carry the company into a new era. On April 22nd 2015, merely 47 days after closing, we launched with a new warehouse, new team, new logo, new inventory - at that point I knew the insanity had been worth it. 








CWIS: Are you a ‘little’ yourself? AB? DL? Pup? Tell us a little bit about your own persona, if you don’t mind? 

CASEY: I am a little - maybe a bratty 4 year old. I’d say I'm equal parts AB and DL. From a young age (maybe when I was 4? 5?), I found the familiar scent of the grocery store diaper aisle intoxicating and a sign of something more I should discover about myself. Feeling funny when I saw a diaper commercial on tv - that was something. I recall having those feelings as early as when I was being potty trained. As soon as I had access to the internet with a little bit of privacy, I knew pretty fast that I wasn’t alone in these feelings.

I’ve resigned to going 24/7, as it is something that I’ve always wanted to do and I really have no reason not to, and that is something that brings me a lot of comfort. 





CWIS: A lot of ABDLs notice that the community seems to be exploding in numbers in recent years. Without giving away any corporate secrets, has your customer base grown as well?

CASEY: Definitely. We’ve seen massive growth in the way of new customers each year. I believe that right now, more than ever, there are more ABDLs discovering themselves and figuring out that they can explore this side of themselves. I credit the many resources out there that help people realize that they don’t need to be ashamed of having a fetish or merely a desire to regress. 

Early on after buying ABU, I had a call with a retired veteran of the Army that had been deployed in Iraq doing surveillance on strategic targets in a heavily armored vehicle. They would go out on missions for I believe around four days at a time. He said that they didn’t exactly have the ability to stop at the corner store, and they would become vulnerable if they were to leave the inside of the vehicle. The Army had issued his squad diapers for toileting use - specifically tabbed briefs. He said that after wearing and using the diapers, he began to keep them on overnight because they were almost like a security blanket of sorts. He shared with me that when he returned home he did a little research and learned that he did in fact identify as a part of the ABDL community. Unfortunately he also shared that his wife was very upset with this and left him, but he had newly partnered with someone that was very accepting of his desired choice of underwear. 

This story, and several others that I can recall, really lead me to believe that this lifestyle, hobby, or whatever it is that you wish to call it, is something that can be discovered at almost any point in life. Something as simple as a smell or possibly even an adverse life event could spark someone’s curiosity towards a bit of googling and discover wearing diapers might be something worthwhile to try.




CWIS: You’ve been a sponsor of some major ABDL events, including TeddyCon, CAPCon, Tomkat, and the West Coast Jungle Gym for several years, and I know ABU has donated prizes for some smaller events around the US. You even sponsored the grand prize in my 2018 photo contest. I know you do the same for events in Europe, as well - Club Diaper, and some others. How much of ABU’s marketing strategy consists of your sponsorship of, and/or placement at, these events?

CASEY: Community involvement and engagement are a huge focus for us. We don’t go to an event with the objective to make money - we are there to build relationships and introduce our products to those that may not have had the opportunity to try them before or they have not tried our full range. I strongly think that a company's leadership team should be visible and engaging with their respective community, and these events are a way to do just that. Even if we can’t be at all of the ABDL events that happen worldwide, even just showing people we care by sponsoring from afar is important to us. Then when we are able to make it to that event in the future, there is a bit of familiarity already. Seeing the 2020 calendar wiped clean due to COVID-19 has been a real bummer for everyone, but when it is safe to do so, we’ll be right back at as many events as we can make it to!

On another note - I am also a photographer and will often offer a hand to help capture the events that we are involved in. Being able to capture people enjoying themselves in their care-free element is really important in my opinion. I’ve acted as an official photographer for TeddyCon, Tomkat, and some other smaller gatherings worldwide. 



CWIS: Is COVID-19 posing any challenges with regard to supply chain? How is the Novel Coronavirus affecting us getting our ABDL products?  

CASEY: On the manufacturing side: Every year around the Chinese New Year (end of January), production at nearly every factory halts for 2-3 weeks. This year, the diaper factories just didn’t reopen. As COVID-19 spread, the need for supplies to make masks sore through the roof, and a lot of those materials needed to make diapers cross over with those to make masks. We didn’t see supply on those materials start to equalize with demand until nearly the end of March, and then we saw a massive price increase on many raw materials. During the summer was when we started seeing our inventory levels show some semblance of “normal”.

From our warehouse to the customer: In our warehouses, we took very harsh steps to ensure safety of our staff. From having staggering schedules, to not allowing walk-in customers, and even having A and B teams in case someone on one of the teams became sick so we could quarantine appropriately and switch to the other team working. There were a lot of changes for our team, even affecting packing efficiency, sometimes it even became difficult to get every order onto delivery trucks for the day. These factors caused us to suspend our shipping cutoff promise until a closer to the “normal” state returns. Once the package actually hit a truck, the shipping networks are all seeing massive delays as well. Speaking for the USA, our primary shipper is FedEx, but we also use UPS and USPS depending on the situation. Every single one of them has suspended guaranteed shipping dates. It has not been an easy task dealing with each of these challenges, and I suspect others in our industry are facing similar sets of challenges in how ABDL products get into a customer’s hands. 



CWIS: What product that you make (or have made) are you proudest of?  

CASEY: Without a doubt, PeekABU/Simple Ultra. We brought to market a new technology that allowed us to exceed the 5000ML capacity, and they reigned for many years as the most absorbent diaper in the world at an advertised 6250+ ML capacity. I personally feel like it has been and still is revolutionary to offer a product with unprecedented security and capacity, a product our customers can really wear without worrying about the things we shouldn’t have to like leaks or tapes.



CWIS: Any particular product in your line you wish you could go back in time and not introduce? 

CASEY: During our ABU 4th event, I announced a new product called “Pretty Possums”. Not everyone saw it was all in jest and good fun, and somehow, I continue to get genuine requests for when these diapers are expecting release. We very much wish to avoid misleading our customers in such a way and did not intend any hints at a marsupial themed nappy for ABU’s future. Unfortunately, these pampered possums will continue to be very much a parody of pretty pinkish proportions and continue to have no plans for release.




CWIS: I see the @ABUNappies tweets all over Twitter, and I know that you’ve got a deal with Diaper-Minister that make your product line readily available in France, as well. Where else are you, and where would you like to be in the next few years? Where do you see the biggest growth in the ABDL market for diapers/various products?

CASEY: We never really planned to operate in the European market without some form of assistance. There are so many diverse nations, languages, and cultures across the European continent, we were apt to create fantastic partnerships with a few stores and brands, much like with Yannick and his team at Diaper-Minister. With their help, we’re able to extend our products to as many people as we can. There’s a reason why the quote once in our “About Us” page mentions ‘World Domination’ as our goal; we strive to go where any community is willing to support the ABU brand and wish to be there sustainably and responsibly. There are many other great relationships that have allowed us to expand into other countries of the world. Taking a page from Starbucks, it’s always been extremely critical for my team and I to ensure that no matter where you are in the world - when you place an order, you have the same great experience no matter if you’re in Tokyo or London. Quality, customer service, and consistency are huge for us to maintain globally. This is why we very much tend to keep the relationship between ABU and the customer, instead of working with networks of resellers globally.  I will tease that we do have a new location preparing to open in another country as we speak, but I can’t give anything away at this moment!  In terms of new products we’ve come to realise the unique position and privilege held by ABUniverse and other ABDL brands. For most of my team their idea of a vintage diaper is an Abena M4 or a 3 tabbed Attends -  but we now have a new generation of younger ABDLs that have always had access to custom products, designed with them in mind. We want to have fun with them, growing great ideas that have a life beyond being just a diaper, like the PeekABU caps. They’re a great accessory to show others in the know who you are and we think there’ll continue to be great ideas and products that see ABDL brands blend more ‘lifestyle’ items with their core line ups and it’s exciting to see new brands emerging in the space too. Right now we have fulfilment operations located in Australia, Canada, Japan, Great Britain and two within the United States. 



CWIS: Tell us a little bit about your team? Who’s behind ABU besides Casey? 

CASEY: How much time have you got?! I think I could easily dictate a book on how proud of our team I am. We have a family of really passionate littles from all around the world. Not only does our team work their padded little buts off for ABU, but they’re also involved in their local communities. Whether it’s supporting the local munch or working to bring about a first ABDL Con in their home countries, I’m very proud of everyone’s spirited contributions! 

Whenever a customer interacts with us online they’re most likely talking to one of our Customer Service & Communications team members either via social media or directly on ABUCares.com. Collectively this group of dedicated crinklers creates a lot of what I would call the ‘voice’ of ABU. If you encounter a problem, have a question, want to make a suggestion, or wish to reach out and simply say hello, these dedicated waddlers are on the case and ready to help.

ABUniverse’s inner workings are composed of a diverse team with experience gathered from all over the world. From serving their countries to running venues and even holding serious leadership positions in their respective fields, these associates bring all that passion and experience to the table and continue to push us forward and onwards daily. When we’re managing and creating designs for new products or even managing logistics, (You would not believe how much work goes into getting diapers from the factory to your doorstep) some team members work with big brush strokes while others focus on the tiny, beautiful details - both combine into what I believe makes ABUniverse a solid brand we all can be proud of. Their collective diversity, experience, and strength make it all come together. 

[Note: We don’t typically use real names as doxxing is a real issue. I’m the sacrificial lamb in this regard.] 



CWIS: Two of the complaints that we often hear from ABDLs about their favorite ABDL diapers is that they sometimes go out of stock, and that they sometimes vary in quality - tapes, plastic, etc. - and even in size. I don’t think there’s an ABDL diaper company that hasn’t been affected. What are the challenges, from manufacturing to distribution, that cause this?

CASEY: We sell a lot of diapers. Every time we organize a new production run, we aim bigger and better than before and still, somehow, it’s never big enough. We are continuously humbled by the support from the community and find ourselves blessed to be in such a position. As recent as this last year we’ve set personal goals in keeping key product lines (PeekABU, LittlePawz & Super Dry Kids) available and in stock at all times, even beginning to expand that promise to other products until Covid came along. With production runs in such large sizes and combining it with manufacturing being overseas we do occasionally get unintentional deviations from a previous batch. We own that, and then work to make it right with any unhappy customers and communicate the changes to people as effectively as possible. We will always work to make things right with our customers and have enough confidence in our products to support them right up until you throw them in the trash!



CWIS: Anything that you are working on that you can share with us?  

CASEY: As of right now, we’re working on revising a few old favorites. One of the best things about diapers is they come packed with tons of great tech that most people don’t comprehend, and that means we can always improve methods of production and deliver better products than we had previously. We’re working on standardizing sizing across as many of our products as we possibly can. We’re also working to make our sizing both more consistent across all our lines, but also to implement more inclusive sizing options, making our products more available for a broader range of people across the community - extending beyond S/SM/M/L/XL! Both are ultimately long term projects, but they’re hugely important to us in our path towards the ABU of the future.



CASEY: In closing - I think i’ve got the greatest job in the world. It can be immensely stressful at times. Most years it has me travelling globally 3-4 months of the year. I have the privilege of working with people I really care about that I know have my back - and working with ABDL ‘stuff’ all day is a pretty crazy awesome thing! I really appreciate the opportunity to participate in this Q&A. If readers have more questions, feel free to email us at ABUCares@abuniverse.com, contact us on Twitter @ABUDiapers, Facebook @ABUniverse, or come chat with us on Telegram https://t.me/ABUniverseOfficial !  -Casey StromCEO, ABUniverse



Wednesday, February 10, 2016

SPOTLIGHT! Know An AB/DL Community Leader?




Know anyone in our community who is deserving of a 'community spotlight' blog entry? 

I try to use Abysitter.com to spotlight members of our community, from the Q&A series to the contests I've run. Cwis's AB/DL Community Spotlight entries were intended to recognize community members who contribute to our community in ways other than sheer adorableness lol. 

Check out past spotlights: my spotlight on Vincent VanGoo - a community originator and creator of the Snuggies pasties series - and RobbiexRainbow, diaperboy blogger extraordinaire

I started this in 2012 but didn't have time to do much with it. Since then a bunch of people have stepped up in our community, some in big ways. I'd like to recognize a few more community members in the coming weeks. 

If you know someone who is a community influencer - for good, not evil, lol - and think they might make a good spotlight subject, please hit me up with the suggestion, or ask them to email me at abysitter@gmail.com and put "SPOTLIGHT" in the subject. 

Let's shine the light on some diapered dopeness. ;) 


Cwis



Saturday, April 28, 2012

Community Spotlight: RobbiexRainbow



[CWIS'S NOTE] The Abysitter.com Community Spotlight is a series of blog entries focusing on members within the AB/DL community who make a difference to it. We will be authoring entries on a variety of community 'leaders', if you will, including website owners, bloggers, clothing purveyors, con creators, and more. Know someone who is worthy of a Community Spotlight entry? Please email abysitter@gmail.com


Want to check out every spotlight? Visit www.spotlight.abysitter.com




COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT #2
RobbiexRainbow


As an ABDL blogger since 2008, I know how difficult keeping up a blog is. 

It can be a royal pain-in-the-diapered-ass.

Once you get through the growing pains - just getting traffic to your blog can be a bitch - you realize that you now have something of a commitment. Your mission, if you choose to accept, is to create fresh, new content that will keep readers coming back day after day, week after week, month after month. 

Sometimes it seems overwhelming. 

I've seen a shit ton of new blogs flounder and die, in part, because of this. 

I've even linked to some, in the links to the right, that didn't make it past the first few months. 



RobbiexRainbow is an ABDL blogger who's not only created a blog that is sustainable, I'd say it's quite popular. I'd also call it a credit to the community. 




Robbie's site is more of a blogsite than a blog - it allows users to sign up to have access to parts of his blog that they wouldn't ordinarily be able to. From the site you can navigate to Robbie's Blogger.com blog, as well as see pictures (album recently updated), videos, and even screenshots of diaper-related conversations (snippets). There's also some information on infantilism and other aspects of our fetish. 

I like Robbie's site because he keeps it up. He's always posting new pictures with a whole bunch of different themes, and his blog on Blogger is updated on a fairly regular basis. Robbie and I are also friends on RUPadded, FetLife, and some other places, and he is always entertaining me in those places, too. 

Robbie is heteroflexible, and pretty open about his sexuality. He's a gifted writer, and that's somewhat rare these days in a world of photo-only blogs and community sites where pictures are often 95% of the content. 

If you read diaper blogs, like diaper pictures or videos, or just want to support an ABDL community member trying to do something to give back to the community, you owe it to yourself to check out www.RobbiexRainbow.tk. The link is in the list to the right, if you can't remember it and need to come back for it later... 


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Q&A With RobbiexRainbow


Name/Nick:
Robert/Robbie/RobbiexRainbow/RxR

 Age:
19

 City/State/Country:
Archdale/NC/USA

 AB/DL/BabyFur/Other?
 AB



 • When did you first realize you were ABDL?

Right after my 14th birthday

 • What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?

For the first bit, I stole my younger brother’s left over pull ups, since he was being potty trained. After that, I purchased goodnites and generic Walgreen brand a little later.

 • Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?

My mom does know. At first, she just told me it was a phase and helped me obtain diapers. But that soon ended and she went into denial about it. Now she doesn’t care as long as she doesn’t have to see it.

 • Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.

For the first 2 years of being part of the fetish, I would go hard at wearing for a few weeks, and then not think of it for a month or so. On two separate occasions, I threw all my stuff out and a month later, I was forced to start fresh. Third year of doing so [17, Senior year], I became a lot better with it because I rationalized it all out and found a comfortable median and haven’t had a binge/purge cycle.

 • For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?

N/A - Still live at home

 • How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?

I’m rather open about my fetish. Most of my friends know and most of them don’t care. Somewhat like my mom – so long as they don’t have to see it, it doesn’t bother them. As for dating, I actually used it as a way to weed out people that I didn’t find good enough for me. Although infantilism isn’t the main focus of my life, it is an important part of it.

 • Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?

I, being a person with burning love for psychology, have my own personal theory of where it came from for me. I have never met my father, and never had a decent fatherly figure. My mother sucked at parenting, and I moved around a lot so I never got attached to anyone. Infantilism, for me, is a way I cope with that and it brings me back to innocence. I’ve made a lot of friends in the community and enjoy talking to people who are “daddies” for the above reasons – they help fill a void.

 • For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.

I’m pretty sure this applies to me, since I was 14 when it started. My first experiences online were from a site called DPF [Diaper Pal Friends? I think it was.] I was young, and didn’t realize how many people were actually pedos with a false persona. But at the time, it was enjoyable to know I wasn’t alone with these feelings.

 • What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?

It is almost none for me. Yes, I can be wet and hump and it feel good, but that’s a reaction to the physical stimuli that is presented. Not because it turns me on.

 • If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.

I can get into the regression aspect of ABDL when I am having a really good role play online or reading a really well written story. Being able to regress in person is a challenge for me that I am slowly trying to overcome.

Don't let yourself be limited by my questions. If you have anything else at all that you would like to say please feel free to say it here:

I would like to point out that, in my OPINION, infantilism is everything from a simple interest, to a lifestyle/hobby, to a sexual fetish, and can fluidly flow through all these channels. Infantilism is unique in the fact that it can be used to supplement/cope for a number of thing that were either scarce in the past or feared for the future. No one should feel like since the word “fetish” is tacked onto it that they have to be seen as someone who is a creepy sex freak. I absolutely disagree with this being classified as purely a “sexual fetish.” But we are human, and we like organization, and fetish most closely described it with ease. Again, this is my PERSONAL OPINION on the matter.





For even more about Robbie, those of you who are members of FetLife can read some of his philosophy on being ABDL there. I've asked Robbie to contribute more on some of these topics for my upcoming Guide to #ABDL, and he's agreed.




Robbie also contributed some cute-as-FCK photos, which I'll share below:



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Check out Robbie's blogsite to see all of his adorable photos... 







Once again, I highly recommend Robbie's blog. Check it out today.

Know somebody to deserves to be spotlighted on my blog? Email me at abysitter@gmail.com.

Want to read the whole Spotlight Series? Visit www.Spotlight.abysitter.com. Much more coming soon!


Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Coming Saturday: Spotlight: RobbiexRainbow

Coming up on Saturday, I'll be posting the newest Community Spotlight up. This week I'll be featuring RobbiexRainbow, a young ABDL blogger who has his own website featuring his pictures, thoughts, and more. 

You may remember that, in February, I put the spotlight on Vincent VanGoo, creator of the Snuggies series of pasties - and ABDL community mainstay since many of y'all were in diapers the first time. I promised to have another one up soon, and while Robbie and I had talked and he'd given me plenty of information, a new computer and some computer problems kept me from posting his entry for a while. Now, it's time... so get excited...


Want to be spotlighted on Abysitter.com? 

Let's face it. Our community has no shortage of assfucks who go out of their way to make us look bad.

But we also have some really positive people who go out of their way to make our community what it is, too. I want to put a positive spotlight on some of these folks here:
  • ABDL Bloggers - y'all rock!
  • ABDL Website Founders, Owners, & Moderators
  • ABDL Event Creators
  • ABDL Store Owners & Employees

I'd also like to do write-ups on as many of the people in the above four categories - and any additional I've left out. So if you have anyone you'd like to nominate, and they contribute to our community in a meaningful way, please email me at abysitter@gmail.com. Please put "Spotlight" in the subject and body of the email. 

And if you're a member of the community who doesn't necessarily contribute anything of note but who'd like to be featured here, fear not! You are welcome to complete a Q&A and be featured here, anyway. Just email me for details... 


Click HERE to see the entire SPOTLIGHT SERIES.

Click HERE to see the entire Q&A SERIES.