Showing posts with label Guest: Calidiaperboy91. Show all posts
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Thursday, August 23, 2018

Q&A With Calidiaperboy91

[CWIS'S NOTE] Up today I have someone brand new to the blog: calidiaperboy91. You may know him from Tumblr. He's taken a moment to do a Q&A that I think you may enjoy - check it out below! 


Name/Nick: calidiaperboy91
Age: 27
City/State/Country: Southern California
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? AB/DL

Social Media: Tumblr - Calidiaperboy91
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When did you first realize you were ABDL?

Wow. For me I never new what ABDL was tell just a few years ago. I have loved diapers since I was in 6th grade. I always thought it was just a phase and that I would put grow it. When I turned 18 I once again started buying good nights and really found out I lived diaper more than I thought.



What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?  

As a teen I use to steal good nights from stores and wear them under my clothes. Once I was 18 I would buy a pack of goodnights and hide them in my room since I had roommates and didn’t want any one to find out.


Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?  

No. I have never really been close to my family and have really made sure that I keep this from them.



Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.  

Yes. When I was younger I alway felt like this was not normal and that I was not going to be normal. I would throw my goodnights away and then get sad because I really wanted them back.


For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?  

I didn’t go to a regular college so it really did not. When I did try the regular college it did not. I never wore to school or out as I was always too scared.


How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?  

My married life is great. Going on two years in a happy marriage with a guy who full accepts me. I told my husband before we got married and he kind of freaked out. However I explained to him what this means to me and how it helps me as a person. He has learned more about it and even tried wearing a few times. It is not his thing but he always encourages me to be in a diaper as it really makes me happy and he loves seeing me happy. As for my social life I have a very vanilla set of friends that do not know of this kink.


Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?   

I can see why. I had a very rough child hood. I was in foster care from the age of two all the way to six. I went through a lot growing up and was the middle kid who never got anything.


For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.  

When I discovered abdl on the internet it was just a about two years ago. I just lurked in Tumblr and finally one day decide to make an account and see what would happen from there. Needless to say it was very good and I have enjoyed getting to know the community.



What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?  

I would say about 15 percent. It has not caused any problems as me and my husband understand that this can be a little sexual for me but it really does not have to be all sexual. I am very sexual and love sex and different things about it.



If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.  

I have started learning about regression and really loved learning more about it. I have used diapers and onesie and a way of helping me regress and make me forget my adult problems temporarily. I have also got a new paci that I have really loved to.  



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