[CWIS'S NOTE] Up today I have the first Q&A for 2020, from Olly!
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Q&A With Olly
Name: Olly! or you may have seen me go by @olly_diaperpup on insta and twitter
Age: 26
City/State/Country: Montreal, Canada
ABDL/Babyfur/Other: half and half AB and DL, depends on my mood of the day haha! I would love to get more into baby fur though! Definitely on my radar!
When did you first realize you were ABDL?
Oh yes, haha, the age old question.
I never really got out of diapers to be honest, I "potty trained" around 5 but then my younger siblings were born and I started stealing their diapers out of attention (or let's be honest, spite :P). So, it just kinda stuck, and ever since then I've been in and out of diapers.
What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?
I had so many ways of trying to get my hands on diapers as a kid, most of them failed attempts tbh. Once my family had the chance to use the cottage of my dad's business partner, do I remember the cottage, nah of course not, what stuck with me though is walking going through the rooms and finding a fully stocked nursery for the guys kid. Let's just say I grab more than a couple diapers during that trip and a paci or teddy.
Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?
I've never been actually caught by one of my parents, but, I'm pretty sure they know haha. I've had onesies and sleepers organized in my closet before or found soggy pamps in bags that I was too scared to throw out gone. I wish I had a better story of my dad or brother forcing me into diapers :P but alas I'm just glad they never said anything.
Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.
I definitely have, especially when I lived at home in the middle of nowhere. I think it tends to occur with littles, when they are in a phase of desperation, at least imo. Either from a break up due to incompatibility or due to a lack of ABDL's in their local area. You feel like you need to start over and if you throw everything away or send it off to someone you know online that it will make everything better. Spoiler, It doesn't and you just start right back up again once you see someone online or meet another local bab. I find, it's not that it gets better as you get old, it just gets easier to manage the more you move up in life, new job/city/living situation and slowly it doesn't bother you as much.
For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?
I'm not in college anymore per se haha, but, being more open about my Abdl side in college was one of the best things that ever happened to me. I met a bunch of great local babs that really helped me come out of my shell! I was nice to have an escape outside of school and home life where we could regress and just have fun!
How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating?
I think it's actually had less of an impact than it might have if I had given it the chance, if you understand? haha. My abdl side eventually led me down a whole bunch of weird, albeit fun, fetishes that range from pup play to rubber. I have always tried to maintain a good half/half fetish and vanilla social life but sometimes depending what I want to get into it can be hard to turn down vanilla events to go to fetish ones. As for dating, that's always been a challenge up until present day I guess. I'm currently seeing a great guy but, he's vanilla and it does get to be a problem in terms of experience and knowledge. We have compromised by opening the relationship, so ideally, any daddies looking for another little to cuddle and change diapers for hit me up haha!
Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know
I guess here I'd say that I'm becoming more and more open to the furry/babyfur world as well as the sissy world, pink is pretty cool! I do enjoy a messy diaper occasionally, but who wants to clean that up! Yuck! Yeah, I'm still exploring and learning and trying out new things! I'm sure there's a whole bunch of fetishes I don't even know of yet :3
What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?
I've never really had any issues with this aspect to be honest, diapers for me are really all about letting go and being cared for by someone so not really sexual for me. I'm usually locked in Chasity while diapered anyways so there's not much I can say about that :P
If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.
I love the feeling of regressing, I go to about age 2. Where I can be plopped on a carpet and be made to play with some toys or some video games and zone out and not think about anything apart from when I'm getting my bottle or if daddy has to take me away from what I'm doing to change or check my diaper hehe. I find it is similar to pup play in a sense. The regression aspect is kinda like a pup's headspace. Where you think about fetching the ball, or wrestling other pups and pleasing Sir and all your other worries just kind of melt away.
Listen, this abdl community is so awesome! We mostly just think about cuddles and changes and don't really get into politics or other adult mumbo jumbo that stops us from having a good time and it should stay that way! That being said if anyone littles, daddies, pups, handlers or baby furs want to chat and get to know me that would be great :) I love meeting and chatting with new people, also gives me an excuse to travel and visit new places! So don't be shy and give me a shout! I don't bite :P
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