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Q&A With Brad

Q&A With Brad

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Q&A Name/Nick: Brad
Age: 26
City/State/Country: Jonesborough, TN, USA
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? ABDL

When did you first realize you were ABDL? 

I was 16 years old. It was very odd, I was looking for a costume to wear for Halloween for a Halloween trick or treat in my hometown I was helping with. Diapers had been in my life before that I was a bed wetter until like 8 or 9 and remember my parents putting me in pampers up until then.Anyway I was looking for a costume and found this baby outfit at Halloween Express that kinda caught my eye but I didn't go with it. I started Googling Adult Baby Costumes and found this new world of Adult Babies by accident. The Youtube Video Sin City-Adult Baby caught my eye too and I was very interested. I later found some diapers and tried it and was hooked. However I had to sneak around and have up until I moved out and really haven't been 24 7 completely yet but have been exploring it very deeply with my Fiancee.


What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen? 

I didn't discover it until I was in my teens so I mainly picked them up as I could but really couldn't wear the first few years it was kinda just an exploration until I went to college. Once in college, I bought them and wore to class but then again never 24 7 or even too long either.

Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted? 

My Twin Brother and my Fiancee knows. I started this journey and found out my brother was into them later on. My parents caught us one time. We were trying out Pampers in our room and dad walks in and there I am standing pulling up my PJs and he wanted to know what we were doing. We said nothing of course and he didn't believe it. Upon further inspection he found the Pamper I had tried to put on. I tried to explain to him and mom even using the Youtube Video Sin City-Adult Baby I had found so amazing. It did not go over well with either of them for me or my brother. Dad and Mom took all the diaper stuff they found and they went in the trash. They thought we just would stop and that's where we both left it with Mom and Dad. As we got older we don't wear much together unless we have diapered friends over or something. He's more AB then I am. I think I'm more DL but also love it when I'm changed and put in diapers. Anyway, several years later I started dating this amazing woman who is in a few months going to be my wife. It got serious really fast and I just had that feeling I was going to marry her. 6 months in I knew I needed to tell her. It kinda felt like a pass or fail for me to win her approval. I was very nervous and had several diapered friends backing me and giving me advice. I got up the nerve to tell her and we discussed it. She didn't know what it was about or what it was, but she wanted to find out. She always had an open mind through it all. I remember her words where kinda like I don't know what that is but I want to see you in one. I did and it was kind awkward the first few times but since then she has wore some with me. We have even gotten to the point where she wants to put me in them and have even discussed me wearing if not all the time but every night to bed. Being put in them by her of course when she can. Also her wearing when she can with me.


Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain. 

I have alot of shame about wearing. I still feel self-continence about being in diapers and what would others think as I am very close to my family and around people alot with my job just makes me nervous it could get back to my parents. I wouldn't care if a stranger said something about me wearing. Just don't want my parents friends or co workers to look at me in a different light because of it. I used to binge and purge alot because of this. I used to think if I just stopped it would just go away but then it made me want to wear more. Its kinda like going without your choice underwear or a piece of yourself. I've learned its going to be a part of my life just got to move with it. I am just not sure how the future idea of having kids with my wife to be will effect this. I've been thinking alot about it these days as our wedding is coming closer and closer.


For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how? 

Yeah it did for sure. I wore to class when I got the urge and when I could. I also got really into to craigslist personal space looking for others like me to hang out with. It got me into alot of situations I probably shouldn't have gotten myself into. Turns out most people don't care if you're diapered or not they are after one thing and that's usually under your diaper. I did meet some DLs and have some of them still has friends; however, we don't see each other much these days.


How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting? 

It made things really awkward dating and socially if I was wearing I was always afraid of being found out. Still do from time to time. My wonderful wife to be loves me for the diaper boy I am and I love her so much for that. I hope married life doesn't change us from that. Parenting scares me especially in my diapered life. Not sure if I'll be wearing then. Just something I haven't quite figured out how to do diapers and my actual kids.


Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out? 

I don't believe any of this. My parents were and still are some of the best parents anyone could have. They were strict but not abusive by any means. I believe a good spanking doesn't hurt to bring a child around either. I believe its just part of our lives like some like panties or cross dressing. Not my thing but more power to you.

Some people have pointed out their observation that a larger-than-average number of multiple birth babies (twins, etc.) rep the ABDL lifestyle. If you are one of these, please explain what effect, if any, you feel this may have had on your ABDLishness. 

I really don't know if this is right or wrong but like I said earlier I am a twin and he is and AB while I am a DL. We are also mirror twins so I would guess that explains why Im a DL and he is an AB. Makes sense to me anyway.


For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons. 

I again discovered it on the internet. I like the Youtube videos but I was on most of the old sites too. Diaperbois, ABY, Diaperspace, and several others. I'm currently not on any of them but it helped knowing there were others like me.


What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you? 

I do masturbate in them and my Fiancee and I have had some fun in them too. It feels so good especially in a wet diaper but has caused me any problems yet. I feel if it starts to I won't be wearing until I get out of the problem.

Want to contact Brad?

Email him here.

Upstate New York?

IN UPSTATE NEW YORK?

Looking for friends/visitors

who live, go to school, or travel through

upstate New York. 

I'm talking CNY & WNY:

Syracuse, Rochester, Buffalo, 

the Finger Lakes, the Southern Tier,

or anywhere within

driving distance. 

Looking to abysit, 

do some creative photoshoots,

or just meet up for

coffee and some conversation. 

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If you are currently

or plan to be

in

Upstate New York,

email me:

abysitter@gmail.com  

Fragile? Just add extra padding...

Up today, I have some pictures left over from my ABDL Boat Weekend. These pics feature a local friend who spent the weekend with me on the boat. It gave me a chance to try out some of my fancy tape collection, and it gave him a chance to try out doubling up - or, in this case, tripling: two very absorbent diapers and a stuffer.

Believe it or not, this kid still leaked through all of that. WTF! 

BTW... if you're going to be in the upstate New York region, email me - always up for visitors to the boat. 

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ABDL Boat Weekend

Long-time readers of the blog know that I bought a boat, and moved aboard, in 2016. After a little bit of ABDL company late last season, I decided it was high time to begin inviting some of my friends from the community to visit my little floating crib. 

We did our first dry run (so to speak) back in June, when ABGussy and Choo Choo Baby came for a visit. Since then I'd set up a ton of hanging locker diaper storage, and put a little toddler bed/crib together. I had my first ABDL weekend this past weekend, and it was a blast. 

I spent all day Saturday with an old friend - you'll see pictures of that here tomorrow. Then, on Sunday, we were joined by five more, for an afternoon/evening of diapers on the boat. 

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A good portion of the afternoon was spent hanging around

inside the salon, getting to know one another. 

It's amazing the twists and turns ABDL conversations take.

After a few hours of conversation we ordered some pizza,

and enjoyed it up on deck as we listened to a band perform at the marina bar and grill. 

Then it was time for a sunset walk to the playground. 

Looks like someone is loosing his pants... 

There are actually three or four playgrounds around. 

During the day they're almost always ruled by little kids.

After sunset, though, the little ones go home,

and the playgrounds tend to open up to kids

of the bigger variety. 

Stay tuned for a funny video of a slide fail... hehe. 

All in all, it was a fun weekend with an old friend, 

culminating in a fun afternoon meeting a whole bunch of new ones. 

If you're in upstate New York, 

or visiting,

and want to make the next one, hit me up: 

abysitter@gmail.com

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Baby Pictures: Heisenberg

[CWIS'S NOTE] Up today I have some new pictures from Heisenberg. You probably know him from Tumblr; he also did a Q&A for the blog a while back. Love seeing/sharing his pictures on Tumblr, but enjoy them even more here hehe. 

Check out his Q&A, it's worth the read... 

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Boat Storage, ABDL Style

A few people have asked me where I stow my diapers and supplies on the boat.

Anyone who boats knows space is at a premium. Even with a liveaboard-size boat, stuff like diapers are tough to store, let alone hide. Hanging lockers exist, but there aren't many, and they're typically only good for... hanging. You can't hang diapers. Or, can you?

Until recently, my solution was keeping bags of diapers stowed away in the trunk of my car, and carrying a few down the dock every couple of days. I've always had a nice collection of diapers on display, so keeping them in the trunk of my car doesn't feel quite right.

I've been looking for a better solution, but it's been difficult to find one.

The boat has a small number of lockers and other places to store things, but most are designed for things to hang in them, and almost all are (by design) conveniently located in public spaces easily accessed by vanilla visitors. (I like my boat to be 'tour ready' at all times - you never know when someone is going to ask if they can have a look, and I don't want to be running ahead hiding 'baby' stuff.) The underbed storage I used at my apartment won't work here, since the boat's fuel tanks are already under the beds. And hanging things in the shower only works if I don't want to take a shower on the boat. (After a night in a soaked diaper on a hot boat, having a shower is a godsend).

After a shit ton of online searching, today I brought home two hanging closet storage racks from Bed, Bath & Beyond. They fit my hanging locker almost perfectly - it's almost like they were meant for it. The best part is that they both swivel around - I can stuff them with Pampers and powder and all sorts of things, and then turn them around so nosy visitors see only a cloth hanging contraption.

I also like the side pockets - they're the perfect place to stuff a dozen or more rolls of duct tape. Y'all know what I'm talking about...

This is the perfect solution for me, but it might also be a good solution for any ABDL with a closet and a desire to show off your diaper collection yet keep them 'hidden' - in plain sight, as it were.

I have a few other ideas for the boat, and will share them as I go along. 

In the meantime, if you live in or will be visiting upstate New York, I'm in the process of setting up another ABDL Boat Day... email me... abysitter@gmail.com! 

The 'hanging locker' is right in the doorway to my stateroom. 

Vanillas love to open it as they tour the boat... 

My new hanging diaper storage fits at least 70 diapers. 

More if I stack them sideways. 

But look! 

Turn them sideways, and the diapers become invisible. 

Turn them all the way around and you see nothing but fabric. 

The side pockets are for shoes. 

But they make the perfect place if you have a collection of rolls of duct tape. 

And bottles, pacifiers, baby powder, and other things

fit nicely here. 

Does anyone else have ideas

for storage that might work well on a boat? 

Hit me up! 

Scenes From The Nursery...

For those who may remember, I moved onto a cabin cruiser last summer. 

The plan was to live aboard 7 months,

and flop at the cottage 5 months. 

High water levels this year, 

coupled with the fact that my boat was too high

to get under the bridge,

left me stranded for a month or two. 

Finally went into the water in June,

and I've already had a few diapered overnighters.

Currently in the process

of setting up a few more... 

So anyway, my master stateroom has two twin beds. 

That seems a little odd, until you realize that 

they're built over the gas tanks. 

Two tanks, two beds... 

One berth is built in, placed between the aft wall 

and the wall separating the head from the stateroom. 

Surrounded on three sides, it's almost like a little crib.

Almost... 

My plan is to have something built

that will double as a ladder to the emergency exit door

(pretty damn high up, tbh)

and a crib rail. 

I love to host vanillas on my boat,

and give random tours of it to passersby. 

Can't have a 24/7 crib. 

But a crib rail that can be quickly removed

and turned into a ladder? 

Fuck yes.

I recently went out and bought a toddler rail. 

See below...

I bought the longest, tallest one available.

And I snagged a shit ton of plushies from a 

secret source,

and brought them in to join the ones I already had. 

The result is pretty dope... 

an awesome little toddler bed/crib

filled with fun little friends. 

Picture my boat being bounced by the waves,

rocking me back and forth,

back and forth,

back and forth,

to sleep. 

The coolest part is, 

once I'm in there, getting in and out of that berth is a PITA. 

It's high as fuck, and I've got short legs. 

I try not to do it more than once.

So I basically pamp up,

bring a bottle, 

sneak in my iPhone and charger, 

and am in bed for the night,

safely tucked in behind my little mesh rail. 

It's about as close to being put in a crib as you can get...

Looking forward to hosting more ABDLs,

so y'all can try it too. 

I will eventually add that 'real' crib rail, 

and probably a crib bumper and mobile, too.

For now, it's close enough... 

just wanted to share it with y'all. 

In upstate New York?

Visiting?

Hit me up!

abysitter@gmail.com

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ABDL Boat Day!

Up today, I have a video from my ABDL boat day with ABGussy and Choochoobaby. Well, to be fair, Choochoo had to leave before we got around to taking the video - you'll catch Gus standing in as his stunt double in the video below.

Anyone in upstate NY (or visiting the area) up for an afternoon on the boat? Email me! 18+