More Mono...

[CWIS'S NOTE] Last week I posted the first pictures of a new friend, Mono. Mono joined me for an overnight on the boat, and we snapped a whole bunch of adorable pics. 

I'd thought Mono was going to be fake. He was real. And what was even better, he was really cool, too. I felt comfortable with him right away. 

As our 'baby pics' show, Mono was comfortable drinking from a baby bottle or a bottle of beer. We had conversations about little stuff, and conversations about big stuff, and as we talked I knew Mono would fit in with some of my other local friends, too. I made it a point to invite him to my boat get-together, conveniently being held that weekend hehe... 

I'll have more pictures from the get-together in a future blog entry. Until then, more Mono... 

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It took Mono a little while to get comfortable with the boat rocking. 

He kept looking out the window to see what was going on. 

Amazing how a little boat can rock the boat so much. 

Mono got to be the first little to get his picture taken in the 'crib'. 

He piled little stuffed fwiends on top of him

for a little game of hide and seek. 

(I found him...) 

After his nap we went up into the forward cabin - 

sometimes called the 'cuddle cabin' hehe - 

to chill and share some stories. 

We had a great time, and

I was impressed that Mono was able to make a visit happen 

in such a short period. 

If everyone in our community

was that open to meeting up, and that willing to 

do what needs to be done

to make it happen,

we'd have so many more meaningful connections. 

This kid drove 1.5 hours each way

to come spend the day being pampered

on the boat. 

What have you done to make a

diapered meetup

happen? 

CHECK OUT MONO... 

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Visitor to the Boat: Mono

[CWIS'S NOTE] Up today I have pictures from someone new - Monolopono. Mono is from upstate New York, and we got to meet after he responded to one of my many messages sent out on Fetlife, Diaper-bois.com, and/or Tumblr over the last few weeks. 

For those of you who don't know, I've been trying to reach out to folks across upstate New York, doing a bit of community-building over the summer. I hosted a get-together on my boat a few weeks ago, and have had a number of visitors from Buffalo, Rochester, and even the local Finger Lakes region. Still, for every one person I have the pleasure to meet, it seems like so much work is involved. Sending out dozens of messages... getting decline messages from guys who won't meet other guys or people who prefer to keep this part of their life 'online fantasy' only... conversations with folks who talk about meeting but in the end never will... and, of course, the 'flakes' and the 'fall-offs'. After all of that you're left with people who are serious about making new friends and who just need to coordinate their schedules with mine. 

And then there's Mono. 

Mono is 23, so I fully expected there to be the potential for some flakiness. Understandably, younger people in our community sometimes approach ABDL meet ups with all kinds of enthusiasm - and then purge relatively quickly, finally responding to your last message weeks or months later, if at all. Mono was clear about what he was interested in right up front, and didn't seem to think twice when I invited him out for some little time on the boat. Would he flake? 

When the mutual day off finally arrived I wasn't surprised a bit when I got the text: doing some errands, running late. Okay... it's all good, I have a few other things I could do today. It wasn't like I could be mad at him - I've gotten used to it, and I remember how difficult meeting up with people for the first time is. 

About an hour later I got another text: he was - allegedly - on his way. 

We'd pre-arranged to meet at the gas station near the marina, and I pulled into the parking lot with no set expectations. He was driving from an hour away, and that was a lot of time, I knew, to get cold feet. So when the designated time arrived and left I just chuckled to myself. What a good day to fill up the tank and go for a padded ride around the Finger Lakes, I told myself. 

A few minutes later Mono was actually in the parking lot, texting me. He really had had some errands to finish... I felt bad for doubting him. We talked for a moment, and then he followed me back to the marina. I had him park in guest parking and get into my car for the ride in, and within a few minutes of conversation I could already tell two things: Mono was fucking adorable, and Mono seemed like the kind of chill kid you'd want to not just regress, but actually be friends with, as well. 

I love it when a plan comes together - and for all of the work I've had to do setting up ABDL stuff, this kid had made it easy af. 

I'll share more about our visit next blog entry. For now... Mono. 

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Q&A With Brad

Q&A With Brad

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Q&A Name/Nick: Brad
Age: 26
City/State/Country: Jonesborough, TN, USA
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? ABDL

When did you first realize you were ABDL? 

I was 16 years old. It was very odd, I was looking for a costume to wear for Halloween for a Halloween trick or treat in my hometown I was helping with. Diapers had been in my life before that I was a bed wetter until like 8 or 9 and remember my parents putting me in pampers up until then.Anyway I was looking for a costume and found this baby outfit at Halloween Express that kinda caught my eye but I didn't go with it. I started Googling Adult Baby Costumes and found this new world of Adult Babies by accident. The Youtube Video Sin City-Adult Baby caught my eye too and I was very interested. I later found some diapers and tried it and was hooked. However I had to sneak around and have up until I moved out and really haven't been 24 7 completely yet but have been exploring it very deeply with my Fiancee.


What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen? 

I didn't discover it until I was in my teens so I mainly picked them up as I could but really couldn't wear the first few years it was kinda just an exploration until I went to college. Once in college, I bought them and wore to class but then again never 24 7 or even too long either.

Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted? 

My Twin Brother and my Fiancee knows. I started this journey and found out my brother was into them later on. My parents caught us one time. We were trying out Pampers in our room and dad walks in and there I am standing pulling up my PJs and he wanted to know what we were doing. We said nothing of course and he didn't believe it. Upon further inspection he found the Pamper I had tried to put on. I tried to explain to him and mom even using the Youtube Video Sin City-Adult Baby I had found so amazing. It did not go over well with either of them for me or my brother. Dad and Mom took all the diaper stuff they found and they went in the trash. They thought we just would stop and that's where we both left it with Mom and Dad. As we got older we don't wear much together unless we have diapered friends over or something. He's more AB then I am. I think I'm more DL but also love it when I'm changed and put in diapers. Anyway, several years later I started dating this amazing woman who is in a few months going to be my wife. It got serious really fast and I just had that feeling I was going to marry her. 6 months in I knew I needed to tell her. It kinda felt like a pass or fail for me to win her approval. I was very nervous and had several diapered friends backing me and giving me advice. I got up the nerve to tell her and we discussed it. She didn't know what it was about or what it was, but she wanted to find out. She always had an open mind through it all. I remember her words where kinda like I don't know what that is but I want to see you in one. I did and it was kind awkward the first few times but since then she has wore some with me. We have even gotten to the point where she wants to put me in them and have even discussed me wearing if not all the time but every night to bed. Being put in them by her of course when she can. Also her wearing when she can with me.


Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain. 

I have alot of shame about wearing. I still feel self-continence about being in diapers and what would others think as I am very close to my family and around people alot with my job just makes me nervous it could get back to my parents. I wouldn't care if a stranger said something about me wearing. Just don't want my parents friends or co workers to look at me in a different light because of it. I used to binge and purge alot because of this. I used to think if I just stopped it would just go away but then it made me want to wear more. Its kinda like going without your choice underwear or a piece of yourself. I've learned its going to be a part of my life just got to move with it. I am just not sure how the future idea of having kids with my wife to be will effect this. I've been thinking alot about it these days as our wedding is coming closer and closer.


For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how? 

Yeah it did for sure. I wore to class when I got the urge and when I could. I also got really into to craigslist personal space looking for others like me to hang out with. It got me into alot of situations I probably shouldn't have gotten myself into. Turns out most people don't care if you're diapered or not they are after one thing and that's usually under your diaper. I did meet some DLs and have some of them still has friends; however, we don't see each other much these days.


How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting? 

It made things really awkward dating and socially if I was wearing I was always afraid of being found out. Still do from time to time. My wonderful wife to be loves me for the diaper boy I am and I love her so much for that. I hope married life doesn't change us from that. Parenting scares me especially in my diapered life. Not sure if I'll be wearing then. Just something I haven't quite figured out how to do diapers and my actual kids.


Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out? 

I don't believe any of this. My parents were and still are some of the best parents anyone could have. They were strict but not abusive by any means. I believe a good spanking doesn't hurt to bring a child around either. I believe its just part of our lives like some like panties or cross dressing. Not my thing but more power to you.

Some people have pointed out their observation that a larger-than-average number of multiple birth babies (twins, etc.) rep the ABDL lifestyle. If you are one of these, please explain what effect, if any, you feel this may have had on your ABDLishness. 

I really don't know if this is right or wrong but like I said earlier I am a twin and he is and AB while I am a DL. We are also mirror twins so I would guess that explains why Im a DL and he is an AB. Makes sense to me anyway.


For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons. 

I again discovered it on the internet. I like the Youtube videos but I was on most of the old sites too. Diaperbois, ABY, Diaperspace, and several others. I'm currently not on any of them but it helped knowing there were others like me.


What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you? 

I do masturbate in them and my Fiancee and I have had some fun in them too. It feels so good especially in a wet diaper but has caused me any problems yet. I feel if it starts to I won't be wearing until I get out of the problem.

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Upstate New York?

IN UPSTATE NEW YORK?

Looking for friends/visitors

who live, go to school, or travel through

upstate New York. 

I'm talking CNY & WNY:

Syracuse, Rochester, Buffalo, 

the Finger Lakes, the Southern Tier,

or anywhere within

driving distance. 

Looking to abysit, 

do some creative photoshoots,

or just meet up for

coffee and some conversation. 

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If you are currently

or plan to be

in

Upstate New York,

email me:

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Fragile? Just add extra padding...

Up today, I have some pictures left over from my ABDL Boat Weekend. These pics feature a local friend who spent the weekend with me on the boat. It gave me a chance to try out some of my fancy tape collection, and it gave him a chance to try out doubling up - or, in this case, tripling: two very absorbent diapers and a stuffer.

Believe it or not, this kid still leaked through all of that. WTF! 

BTW... if you're going to be in the upstate New York region, email me - always up for visitors to the boat. 

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