Baby Album: Baby Spencey

Up next, new pictures from Baby Spencey. 

Spence is an adorable Midwest collegebaby who's been treating us to dorm room photos for a few years now. You can catch most of his pics by clicking www.babyspencey.abysitter.com. (This kid is awesome... this is our seventh set of pictures!)

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Mikey & Me - Part VIII

[CWIS'S NOTE]: If you are reading this series, keep in mind that you must read from the oldest entry, chronologically, to the newest entry, in order to understand the whole story. The first entry in the Me and Mikey series was posted September 11, 2011 so you can scroll to that date and read up from there...

Road Trip: New York - Summer 2011

Mikey and Me - Part VIII

[CWIS'S NOTE] I started this series on September 11. It has been extraordinarily difficult for me to keep writing it, because the person I am writing about means a lot to me. We have had some ups and downs since all of this happened, none of it related to diapers, and writing all of this is hard because it brings me back to one of the best weeks I've had in my life. To all of the people who have written to ask when the next blog entry will be unveiled... thanks.

 

I sat down on the floor next to the couch. Mikey was freshly diapered, and had waited until this moment to announce that he had to pee. We had just been swimming in the lake, and he hadn't gone there. He had the chance to go coming up the stairs, and had chosen not to. And now that I put a brand-new diaper on him, he had chosen to let me know it was time. This kid who thought the idea of letting in a diaper was disgusting... and now he was diapered and wanted to go potty?

"Bro," I told him, shaking my head, "those diapers are like $3 each. Seriously?"

I had put him in a Cushie, and he was about to make me ruin it by removing the tapes? Bullshit!

Mikey laughed, and promised to do his best to hold it.

I put on a disposable diaper, an Attend, and lay down on the floor.

Mikey lay next to me, then scooted across the floor on his bum, resting his head on my stomach like a pillow. We both lay silently, watching the moon as it reflected across the water.

So peaceful.

The day had been hot, but our swim had cooled us down considerably. It was dark out now, and the air temperature was just becoming reasonable. 

Mikey, as always, couldn't let the silence continue. He asked me to tell him some stories about diapering people.

So I told Mikey many of the same stories that you have read in this blog. At first I forgot that he has read the blog, as none of my other non-ABDL friends have. That ended when he started finishing my stories, and I realized he had read much more of the blog than he had originally let on. I told him about being robbed for $100, for instance; he pointed out that I had had the opportunity to leave the scene and keep my money.

"You didn't so much get robbed, as you... made a donation," he corrected me, throwing up dramatic air quotes around the word donation. I laughed.

"It was for a good cause," I defended myself.

"Yea," Mikey continued teasing. "The Hotboy Pamper Fund."

"Nothing wrong with a little charity," I told him, and he laughed.

"Actually, I was going to talk to you about that," he told me. "So I'm glad you feel that way. You know how I'm down to my last few cigarettes?"

"Yea?" I said, suspiciously. I had already paid for this dude's bus ticket...

"Well, have you ever given anyone money to do anything... extra?"

I was surprised. Mikey was straight. I already felt pretty lucky to just be able to hump while I rested my head on his beautiful ass... I didn't know how to tell him that I was already getting to do everything I wanted to do just by humping my diaper.

"You mean... sexual?" 

"Eww, no," he interrupted me. "No, I mean... I wondered if you would be willing to trade a pack of cigarettes for..."

He trailed off, thoroughly embarrassed, and I waited to see what he was going to suggest.

"...a wet diaper."

He said it, and I could see in the moonlight that his face was red. I let it hang there for a minute. I already I had predicted he would be asking me to buy him a pack of cigarettes. One of my pet peeves is buying cigarettes for my friends, since I don't smoke them, and I had mentioned this to him when I told him to slow down on the ones he'd had at the beginning of the trip. If I could get a wet diaper out of the deal it would make it a little easier to bear.

"I'd consider that," I told him. And without having to be asked he slid over next to me and positioned his diaper within a few inches of my hand. I lifted my hand and put my fingers on the front of his diaper, and no sooner was I touching the outline of his penis then he began to flood it...

"Bro, I hope you are really appreciating this," he told me as he wet. "I haven't wet myself since I was a little kid."

Thirty seconds later Mikey was still going strong. His diaper was completely soaked in the front, and I had placed my other hand on the back of his diaper and began to feel the warmth headed in that direction as well.

Hot... so hot.

As Mikey lay soaking, I pulled him towards me and flipped him over onto his tummy. He lay, straddling me, the warmth of his soaked Pamper pressed against my leg. The sensation made me hard, and I rubbed his bottom, pushing the wetness around. So hot...

Damn, so hot.

As we lay uncomfortably on the floor, still feeling the effects of the day's heat, I pondered again how lucky I was. I had one of the hottest guys I've ever had the experience of diapering laying with me, and he was willing to abandon his stay-dry principles for a pack of cigarettes. He fiended for Newports like I feinded for Huggies.

"How's it feel?" I asked him.

"Bro... my bottom is squishy as hell," he admitted. A big, dopey smile was on his face, and I could tell he was enjoying himself.

Correction: enjoying making me happy.

"How's it feel," he asked me, "to be the only person in the world who has the privilege of putting a future rock star back into diapers?"

I had to laugh.

"One day you will be a finalist on American Idol," I teased him. "And I will be able to say I pampered that dude as you're singing your final performance on TV."

"Correction, Cwis," Mikey interrupted me. "I fully expect you to be in the audience. After all, I'll probably need somebody to change me after performing in that big of a crowd..."

We both laughed, but I thought about how awesome it would be to have that job. Professional diaper changer to the rockstars... damn... 

Mikey and I late for another 30 minutes or so. I continued to move my hand around his bottom, and he continued to ask me to tell stories about some of my experiences, which I was only too happy to do.

After half an hour Mikey started to rock. He began slowly, moving ever so slightly on the floor. After a minute or two he was beginning to rock from side to side.

"Let's relocate this into the bedroom," I suggested. The floor was hard, and watching Mikey rock on it... not comfortable. He agreed, and we walked into the bedroom.

"Face down," I ordered. Mikey complied, flopping down hard on the mattress. He let out a big yawn, then stretched, sticking his soaked tush into the air. It was hot...

I lay down on the mattress behind Mikey, pushing his bottom down with my face. His Pamper was so wet, now. I watched him squeeze his bottom a few times, the diaper barely changing shape...

I pushed my thumbs into the leggings of Mikey's diaper, and pee squeezed out a little. This dude was soaked! I pushed my hands together under his penis, disappointed a little that he seemed to stay soft, and raised his bottom into the air...

I rested my head on Mikey's bottom. The air hung thick with the combination smell of urine and baby powder - a hard-on inducing combination if ever there was one. I inhaled deeply, taking it all in. Mikey's soaked bottom, beautiful body, and the moonlight flashing off his diaper were all too much... after a whole five minutes of humping I'd set some sort of personal record for shortest time to ejaculation.

"Damn!" Mikey exclaimed when he realized I'd finished already. "This is a lot more bearable when the other person is wearing a wet diaper, apparently! If you'd told me that I would've made arrangements to piss in these things before!"

I lay next to Mikey, satisfied. After a few minutes he reminded me that he was uncircumcised, and told me he felt like laying in his own piss would cause "penis chafing and irritation."

Reluctantly I changed him, trading the odor of pee-soaked diaper for the scent of baby powder. 

"Can I sleep down here tonight?" Mikey asked me. It was if he had read my mind, and I nodded. 

As I drifted off to sleep Mikey was offering to spend the whole next day in diapers. I could hardly believe my luck: I was getting the opportunity to diaper my best friend - a hot, straight rock star status type who I was certain had never stripped for a dude, let alone Pamped up - and pissed on himself.

I drifted off to sleep still thinking about how lucky I had been...

TO BE CONTINUED...

HELP WANTED! Guide Topics

In 24 hours since I posted my blog entry on the upcoming Guide to ABDL I have been working on, I have already received responses from more than half a dozen of you wondering what you can do to help!

My plan is to tell a lot of my own stories in this booklet.

I plan to incorporate the stories of you guys, as well.

My goal was to post a different question on Abysitter.com every week, kind of like I did when I did the 'What Makes Us Tick' series last year, and ask you to respond to it.

I decided to give you a heads up, instead, and give an extensive list of what I will be looking for in advance, so that anyone with any elaborate thoughts or experiences on any of the topics below can write and submit them at any time.

Remember that I am always looking for blog entries. I am also looking for stories to include in the guide. If you have either, please send them to me, and please specify whether I may use them for the blog, the guide, or both.

They are:

• When did you first realize you were ABDL?

• What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?

• Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?

• Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.

• For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?

• How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?

• Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?

• Some people have pointed out their observation that a larger-than-average number of multiple birth babies (twins, etc.) rep the ABDL lifestyle. If you are one of these, please explain what effect, if any, you feel this may have had on your ABDLishness.

• For the older generation, please tell us more about what it was like being ABDL before social networking. I will be looking for the perspectives of members in their 40s, 50s, and even higher.

• For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.

• Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.

• What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?

• If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.

I will be releasing each of these questions and some others in future blog entries. I'll be asking people to submit real stories, essays, or just answers to questions.

Is there anything in the list of topics above that you would be interested in writing about?

Is there anything else you have to add that I have not included?

Are there any topics you feel would be imperative, that need to be covered in this type of guide?

If so, write about it. Or propose your idea, at least... I would like to hear your thoughts.

Please keep in mind, I am not looking for the best writers necessarily, as I will be incorporating a number of different styles, from simple question and answers to entire stories, into the guide.

I am looking for as many participants as possible. So write whatever you are comfortable with, and send it to me ASAP. And stay tuned to this blog for regular questions, including those above and others...

PICTURES

I am looking for blog entries all the time. I am also looking for pictures, be it face or faceless, for the blog. For the guide, I am looking for some of the best pictures we have to offer. I will be looking for photos that really represent the normalness of this lifestyle, pics that illustrate the topics of 'adult baby' and/or 'diaper lover'. Got anything for me? If so, hit me up. Like to take pictures? If so, I would kill for some exclusive shots... just get at me.

CONTACT ME

When you are ready to submit full stories for the blog please email me at abysitter@gmail.com. You can also send your pictures to this email address. Remember, 18+ only, and specifically state this, as well as that you permit the picture/s to be used in the blog and/or guide.

Got questions?

Email:
abysitter@gmail.com

Text:
(407) 459-4675

Please be specific about who you are and why you are contacting me when you email and text.

I am really looking forward to hearing from as many of you as possible. If you have never considered writing before, think about how valuable your perspective and/or life story will be in the representation of ABDL.

Hit me up?

Cwis

Help Wanted!

In 2012 I will be releasing a guide to ABDL that I have been working on intermittently for the past year.

I will be reaching out to notable members of the community, as well as some of my friends, for help with this.

If YOU have a unique perspective to offer, I want to hear from you ASAP.

I am also looking for the best pictures you have to offer. I am looking for both adult baby AND diaper lover photos. Babyfur pics and other related photos are welcome, too. I ALWAYS need them for the blog, but would like to include some in the guide, as well. (I will specifically request your permission to include your submission in the blog).

If you want to help, email me at abysitter@gmail.com or text me at (407) 459-4675. Be specific about who you are and why you're reaching out, please.

And stay tuned to these pages for more information on this project, and other exciting new stuff to come.

Cwis

PS - At the bottom of this entry are "share" buttons. If you know anyone who might have insight to share, please share this with them...

In The News: Diaper Dumper Strikes Again

Really?

You can't just find a trash can?

Damn...

http://www.yorknewstimes.com/articles/2011/12/30/news/doc4efd5ea7c010a668198512.txt

KevJumba??

Internet celebrity KevJumba (also from the Amazing Race TV show) and his new onesie. Looks like one I've seen in pictures on a lot of the sites, I don't know... ;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPwd4DbDp38&sns=em

Merry Christmas!!!

I hope the holidays are finding all of you wet, and well. I hope you found diapers, footed sleepers, and plenty of toys under the tree. And I hope you enjoyed time with family, friends, and those who surrounded you this holiday season.

As always, I had many ideas for a new Christmas blog. And, as usual, I decided to go with the old standby.

The same blog entry I posted in 2008 when I began the blog.

Merry Christmas...

http://abysitter.blogspot.com/2008/12/ghosts-of-christmas-diapers-past.html

ABDL & Age: Submissions Wanted

Over the next few weeks I will be writing a few entries on our fetish/lifestyle/community, and the age factor.

Age.

We are a fetish community that is largely rooted in 'ageplay'. We are either adults who enjoy being treated as babies (in the case of ABs), or adults who enjoy wearing clothing reserved for babies (in the case of DLs).

Age is just a number, so they say - but within our community it is a very important one.

I'd like to know your thoughts on it.

I'm talking about disrespect and discrimination shown towards his older members of our community.

Likewise, I'm talking about younger members of our community who clearly state age boundaries yet have those disrespected by people outside of them.

I'm talking about younger people who aren't taken seriously by the older people they attempt to strike up friendships with.

I'm talking about older people who feel that they have been taken advantage of by younger people in the community.

Really, if you have any thoughts on any aspect of 'age' as it pertains to ABDL, I'd love to hear from you.

In my next blog entry on the subject I will be asking several questions on this. However, if you have any thoughts you've like to share first, please email me. Please share your thoughts, and feel free to include your username, age and location, and any contact information you'd like me to share. You may also include a picture of yourself, ABDL or not, and I will try to use it if I put your thoughts into my blog entries; this, of course, is not required. (You may also ask to keep your thoughts anonymous).

It is high time I wrote a thoughtful blog entry like I used to, and after the many responses I received from my blog entry on keeping it 18+ last week, from younger people and older people - a lot with thoughts on age - I thought this would be the best topic to start with.

Please don't disappoint me. My email is abysitter@gmail.com. I hope to hear from as many of you as possible.

Cwis

YouTube Featured Video: Cloth Diapers

A featured YouTube video this week:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YxIvhjkC7g&feature=youtube_gdata_player

RIP Scott Baio

http://www.sheknows.com/entertainment/articles/850057/scott-baio-death-by-diaper-rash

Seriously... death by diaper rash?

When Charles was in charge I used to have some pretty crazy big bro fantasies about this guy.

This is, of course, just an internet prank. But all day long #diaperrash has been trending on Twitter...

18

I am fully aware that there are more than a few people in our community who are not fans of my "18 and up rantings". (Someone showed me a screenshot of that phrase related to my blog in a chatroom recently, and I had to laugh...)

Fuck it. Did you know there are nearly a dozen members of the greater ABDL community under age 25 locked up for possession of child pornography, distribution of child pornography, or involving actual children in ageplay?

When you consider that our community is thousands of members strong, that's not a very big number. Probably not that much different from society as a whole.

But when you stop to think about the fact that the vast majority of us are engaged in age play anyway - an activity/fetish/lifestyle in which ages are blurred... in which an 18yo desperately longs to feel like a baby again, in which a 22yo can be a 'daddy' to a guy old enough to BE his daddy... it all gets pretty fucking confusing.

It makes sense to have some strict, universal limits.

For me, the number is 18.

Eighteen.

18.

A hard, fast limit. 

Of 18.

Have I said it enough?

18.

As an ABDL in my 30s I'm the first to admit I've been pretty lucky. 

Since I started doing the Pampz-for-pay thing in college... to my more recent encounters with other ABDLs, either on my various road trips or the many visiting Orlando... pretty fucking lucky: I've easily diapered more than 120 people, a number that includes a few dozen ABDLs and quite a few abysitting sessions, too.

I like younger guys. 

Preferably thug types. Sometimes jocks. Skaters. And guys who don't fall into any category. 

But collegebabies rock, and I've been lucky enough to diaper way more than my fair share.

Gay, straight, bi, asexual... they've all been different.

But whether I babysat/abysat, hung out in Huggies, or humped as I rubbed that glorious diapered ass (mmmhmmm) one thing has always been constant.

You already know what it was.

That's right... 18+.

I have diapered guys in their 20s, guys in their 30s, and have even gone older on occasion. But when you primarily diaper ABies who are college aged, you learn to check ID. 

Before I started my blog and started ranting about the importance of having standards, I had actually been hit up on at least one or two of the now-defunct websites from guys who admitted, eventually, to being under age 18. 

I'm no dummy. I know that there are a ton of community members who aren't 18. They're all over ADISC, Stanley's site, and other places.

I definitely don't hate people under 18.

We were all under 18 once. 

I remember wanting a 'big bro' as much as some of the collegebabies I have diapered have wanted a 'big bro' or daddy. The urge is pretty intense, for those of us who are truly AB. (I still have it myself sometimes... keep watching for the 'Baby Mikey' stories, which I promise to have finished by this weekend, for more on that.)

So yea... I understand that our community is full of people who are under 18.

Which is why it's even more important that we all have standards.

I look at it as being similar to the big kids' table at big family dinners. As children we are often relegated to sitting at a children's table, a table like the adult table but with more juvenile conversation and usually not as prime pickings when it comes to food.

As we get older we are eventually allowed a place at the grownup table. 

Some of us desperately try to prevent this, wanting to stay at the kids' table for life. 

But, eventually, we all have to move up.

Today's kids' table ABDLs are 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, even 17.

They're on the Internet. 

They're impersonating adults, sometimes.

They're using the same pictures I saw on sites when I was in college, and they're calling them "new".

They want a place at the grownup table: the adult sites (RUP, ABDLC, and others). 

They're relegated to the kids' table for now: ADISC, Stanley's site, and others.

And that's how it should be - mostly.

Now, picture it.

You are sitting at the grownup table, and you look over at the card table filled with your cousins, nieces, nephews. 

Wait a minute... who's that?! Isn't that Uncle Bob? He's almost 50! How did HE get a seat at the kids' table?!!

Just like there will always be kids who try to work their way into 18+ sites, there will always be adults attracted to kids who head for sites where children congregate.

That is true in our lifestyle, and in society in general.

People who do this are generally called pedophiles. True, sometimes there are people who have true altruistic motives, such as trying to keep younger people safe, but it's often hard to tell the difference.

I have stopped trying to tell the difference.

I have hard, strict, unyielding standards when it comes to age. If your ID not say 18 you're not getting a pack of cigarettes (unless you're in the hood), you're not voting, and you're not getting abysat by Cwis.

I know there are a number of people who think my age limits are stupid. 

These include younger ABDLs who wants to be babysat, and older ABDLs who think I am telling them how to live their life and/or ruining their chances with those they seek to diaper. 

I have my share of haters, and I've been linked to chats and forum conversations from people who think my blog makes our community less community-oriented because I "espouse exclusion" - another expression I've LOL'd at in the past.

I'll be straight up. If someone tells you that my blog is stupid because I advocate keeping a boundary between of those older than 18 and those younger, be suspect of that person.

I once spent a whole weekend with a collegebaby visiting Orlando. We had a lot of fun, and after it was all over, as I dropped him off at the airport, he told me that he was surprised it had been fun.

"A few people told me that I shouldn't meet up with you," he told me. 

I didn't have to ask him who. I named a name or two, and he rounded that out with another names or two.

"Let me stop you right there," I told him. 

And sitting in front of the departure/drop off at OIA I did a quick Google search, finding an article about a young person arrested for child pornography. My new friend read it, looking confused.

"See the mug shot?" I asked. He nodded. "See the arrest date?" I asked. He nodded again.

I took my iPhone back and opened to a diaper site, clicking a few links until I'd come to a group shot. I handed him the phone.

"Recognize anyone?" I asked.

He looked through the more than a dozen faces until he'd spotted the one he'd just seen. 

He froze.

"See the date that picture was posted?" I asked him. He looked, and then looked at me.

"Chris... that's fucked up..."

"You have been getting advice from the other people in that picture," I told him. He looked again.

"That's really fucked up..."

18 +.

I often wonder if the kid in the article I just mentioned would have been jammed up if he been surrounded by people who had taught him about setting age limits, instead of by people who taught him that age is just a number.

Reading the article I've linked to below brought me back to that same thought. It is about an Eagle Scout arrested at age 19 for trading diaper pictures with a 13 year old fetishist. 

He was just sentenced to more than 12 years in federal prison.

It's fucked up. 

It's the reason 18+ is so important.

And the reason it only works if we all enforce it.

I will be writing more about the dynamics of age as it relates to ABDL in the future.

For now, click the link, read, and consider...

All I Want For Christmas Is... a $17K Paci?

http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/12/14/the-11-most-extravagant-gifts-money-can-buy/#babywit-diamond-pacifier

Hall of Shame

I've said it before and no doubt I'll say it again: 18 & up!

• Do not diaper minors.

• Do not diaper the handicapped.

• Do not take pictures of either of the above.

We are all ambassadors of this community. When one of us does sick shit, in the minds of some we've all done it. 

Don't do it.

A few stories about one guy who did do it... and got 12 years...

Rosemount, Minn., man sentenced for shooting videos of a girl in a diaper | Rosemount Town Pages | Rosemount, Minnesota

In a Feb. 1 meeting Marquardt told police he was aroused by diapers. He said he had been downloading images of children from the Internet for 10 to 15 years, and said he recorded the girl – and in some cases uploaded the photos and videos to online sites – because he thought she was "cute."

Marquardt's computer also contained images of him wearing a diaper.

http://www.rosemounttownpages.com/event/article/id/29255/group/News/

'This is taboo... wrong... and sick': Minnesota judge orders jail time for baby-sitter with diaper 'thing' | Grand Forks Herald | Grand Forks, North Dakota

http://www.grandforksherald.com/event/article/id/223260/group/homepage

Update: Toronto Millionaire Case

Update on the case of the Toronto millionaire ABDL... charges stayed...

http://www.nationalpost.com/m/wp/news/blog.html?b=news.nationalpost.com/2011/12/06/murder-conspiracy-case-comes-to-puzzling-end-as-prosecutors-stay-charges

Update: Guilty

Update on the case I posted in the entry below.

http://www.bnd.com/2011/12/03/1965180/crutchfield-could-receive-life.html