I'm Back... Please Spread The Word?

I just want to thank everyone, again, for continuing to visit the blog even during the time period y'all were locked out of it.

Now I'm back.

Going to start posting on the regular again.

My readership didn't fall off nearly as much as I thought, but it did fall off by about 33%.

That means that most of you guys are loyal-ass readers.

Do me a favor?

Some of my readers may think I disappeared.

At the bottom of this blog entry there's some buttons you can post to share with your friends?

If you can, share this post on Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus, or in an email with your ABDL people, that'd be dope as fck.

In the meantime, come back often, because I'll be posting my own stories, some other stories, some pictures, and a video in the next week or so.

Stay tuned! And thanks for being patient...



Cwis


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Time.com: Changing Diapers Less To $ave?!

From Time.com, with a nod to AdAge: an article about diaper sales dropping at the same time diaper rash cream sales are soaring, and a question: are parents changing diapers less to save?

http://moneyland.time.com/2011/09/07/diaper-rash-index-are-parents-changing-kids-diapers-less-often-to-save-money/?iid=pf-main-feature

We ARE in a recession... anyone in the ABDL community changing less? Fess up!

And We're Back...

Two weeks ago I took my blog down, temporarily. 

If you visited Abysitter.com you got an alert that stated you had to be invited to view the blog. 

Many of you wrote to me to request invites. 

Some of you asked if I was all right.

A few of you unfriended me on the various diaper sites, thinking that I had decided that you could no longer view the blog, or something along those lines. 

Not the case.

In mid-August one of my best friends began to have some personal troubles.

I got word that his internet search history included my blog, and that the people who he was living with - who he was stuck with at the time - might try to embarrass him because of his association with me and this blog.

I quickly suspended the blog.

I won't risk one of my best friends being humiliated by something like this. 

Still, once I suspended it I realized that there was no way for me to get the word out. 

So I hoped that you would be patient. 

I've been blogging consistently without a break since 1998. I figured you'd keep coming by occasionally, until I came back.

Now... I'm back.

My friend is out of the location he was in. So we'll try this again; hopefully I'll be able to keep it up...

Upcoming At Abysitter.com...

1. True Stories & Fiction

I have stories from Jesterbaby coming soon.

I've been approached by a few other writers.

Get your stories in now...

2. Contest!

I'll be announcing a contest and some exciting prizes.

The theme is 'True College Tales'.

Get excited. Especially if you like cloth diapers.

3. The Summer With Mikey

I spent ten days in July with one of my best friends.

This kid rocked.

Not ABDL, but willing to wear with me...

...and an interest of his own that we tied into this. 

It's pretty powerful stuff.

Plus, he fed me a bottle, and it was amazing for me.

You'll find out all about it as I tell my own story...

Baby Mikey on Vacation

4. 'Baby' Pictures...

I've had submissions from Spencer, Ehren, and others.

Got pictures to share?

18+ only.

Email abysitter@gmail.com. 

It's nice to be back, but I'm honestly still recovering from my summer vacation and the post-vacation drama. 

If you have ever thought of writing, or sending in pictures, to this blog, now is the time.

In the meantime, thank you for being loyal readers... you guys rock, too.

Cwis

A Little Bweak for Cwis...

I have returned to Florida after six weeks in New York.

While in New York I had an amazing ABDL experience with a non-ABDL. It was dope as fuck, and I'll be blogging about it at some point in the near future. 

Afterward, I needed a little time to recover.

So I took a little break.

I've got some great stories from Jesterbaby, and some new pictures to put up soon.

But I've avoided doing anything ABDL-related for a few weeks. Besides a link to a friend's blog and some pictures of my boy Baby Zac... nothing. 

Why?

After my ten-day experience, some of which you'll read about soon, I came back online. My first move - logging into my Yahoo account - annoyed the fuck out of me; my first two messages were from people making negative remarks about other people in the ABDL community. I had just had ten diaper-filled, drama-free days, and it irritated me. It was killing my buzz. So I turned YIM off. I'll soon be turning it back on and getting to responding to messages. To anyone who's felt ignored, I apologize...

The second thing that happened was my logging on to FetLife. I read through my 'wall' and saw a few posts which looked interesting. I went to two of them. One was a post where people post messages they've gotten in their inboxes. While some of these were, admittedly, creepy and/or entertaining, I saw a lot of messages which, to me, appeared to be no more than people desperate to make connections reaching out to others who, in my opinion, should have had a lot more compassion and a lot less derision. That pissed me off. My second post was a post about something generic, but the thread had become a forum for bashing other ABDLs. The irony that the moderators of the group I was reading this bullshit in had removed a link to my "message to ABDLs" blog entry, citing rules against posting to "other websites" - fuckers. It's okay to bash people by posting confidential emails sent to you, but not okay to post a link to a positive, uplifting blog entry? FUCK THE ABDL COMMUNITY.

Well, okay, that's a little harsh... but that's how I felt for a few weeks. I'd just had an amazing experience with someone who is basically my best friend, someone who is not ABDL but was willing to be diapered for me and was astonishingly positive about it. Again, I'll be writing more about this soon. In the meantime, I needed a little break from some of the negativity that I see in our "community" on a daily basis. So to anyone who may have felt like I abandoned them... my apologies. 

I'm making a slow, steady comeback. In the next week you'll read a new story from Jesterbaby, and see some new photos. I'll also announce a contest. And, in the next few weeks, you'll read my New York story.

Thanks for continuing to come by and visit Abysitter.com; in the past two weeks we passed 200,000 visitors - pretty amazing! And, in the past 48 hours, I've had over 1,000 unique viewers sent here from two different diaper sites which featured the blog... thanks!

Love you all... well, most of you...

Cwis

CONTRIBUTORS WANTED! Pictures! Stories! Artwork!

My blog got

1,000 unique views

in the past

24 hours.

It regularly gets

150

fresh

new

viewers

every

day.

I am looking for

stuff:

pictures

stories

artwork

commentary

graphics

&

more.

18+, yo.

Got stuff you want to share?

All body types

are welcome.

Send it to me:

abysitter@gmail.com!

On behalf of me

and all of these viewers

who come here

for fresh,

new

content...

thanks!

Cwis

THE FINE PRINT: All pictures should be of you, or taken by you with the subject's consent to share. Please email the pictures with a statement regarding your age (18+ only, no exceptions) and location (city/state or state/country) in which you give permission for the pictures to be posted on Abysitter.com. Due to copyright and other reasons I avoid taking pictures directly from diaper websites, so email is best. Story content and artwork should clearly depict all participants as 18+. No Deeker shit here! Questions? First, let me say: you ARE cute enough... so send that shit! But seriously, any questions, just email me. 

Baby Pictures: Baby Zac

Up next: Baby Zac. We saw pictures of Zac in April 2010. Since then he's moved from Alabama up north. He's basically adorable in any state, so check him out, and if you want to hit him up he's on FetLife and a few diaper websites.

Thanks for the cuteness, Baby Zac!

If you want to read his story or see his older pics, click here and scroll down.

One of my favorites... I love a nice diapered ass. ;)

Got pictures to share? Email them to abysitter@gmail.com. 18+ only.

(And, yes, these photos were used with Zac's permission).

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Pics and content not to be reprinted without permission.

Merchant Profile: Never Grown Up

In several weeks I'll be announcing an exciting new contest. The contest is sponsored by Never Grown Up, an ABDL merchant specializing in cloth diapers, onesies, rompers, and other ageplay clothing.

Never Grown Up is owned by Devianttouch.

Unlike some of the ABDL hucksters out there, Devianttouch is ABDL himself.

"I started the store because I wanted to have clothing and diapers that felt like styles I would enjoy, and I found that other people liked them too," he says.

A little more about Devianttouch: he is an instructor in the BDSM community. He teaches at a wide variety of events on ageplay and other classes too. You can read more about his areas of expertise by visiting his FetLife profile.

You can visit his website, Never Grown Up, by visiting http://www.etsy.com/shop/nevergrownup, or just click on the banner below.

I'll be announcing contest details, and prizes, on August 12. In the meantime, here's a hint: get your true college (or college-aged) stories ready...

Baby Pictures: Dman420

I am still in New York for another two weeks, but I thought I'd hit you with some dope-ass pictures from my April 2011 Dman420 photoshoot. Or, I probably should say damp ass... in these pictures our boy is wearing a very, very soaked Cushie. 

Dman420 is an Orlando baby who, as the name probably suggests, is into diapers and 420. He's looking for friends... hit him up on http://rupadded.com/dman420. 

Coming this weekend... a story from me... a story from Jesterbaby... and if you guys submit any, some new pictures. 

Send any pictures, artwork, or stories (true or fictional) to abysitter@gmail.com.

18+ only!

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Pics and content not to be reprinted without permission.

STORY TIME! Stories Wanted... FACT OR FICTION!

Beginning in August I will begin publishing fictional stories.

These stories will be linked from www.storytime.abysitter.com.

They need not be true, although true stories are still welcome.

You'll be able to visit StoryTime and view only fictional stories about ABDL subjects.

One requirement: stories may only involve those 18+.

No exceptions.

If you have a good story you'd like to share... or the first chapter in a series... email me: abysitter@gmail.com.

Bad News For Abies... LOL.

Wtf. A new Huugies diaper with no tapes? This cannot be good...
Making the Diaper Change Easier - NYTimes.com:
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/29/business/media/making-the-diaper-change-easier.html?_r=1

Hall of Shame: NH Facing More Charges

Remember: tricks are for kids...
http://www.unionleader.com/article/20110727/NEWS03/110729893

Last week...

If you've noticed a lack of new content on my blog (save Jesterbaby and Dominomotion - and thank goodness for them) it's for a good reason:

I had the best ABDL week of my life over the past ten days.

I wanted to share that with you, especially my regular readers.

I can't share why, how, or photos without the other party's permission. Since the other party is 100% straight and not ABDL that's not likely to come. If it does, I'll share more.

In the meantime I'll say this:

A close friend taught me a lot about myself, 

our lifestyle, 

and some of the reasons behind

why we are the way we are 

over the past ten days. 

I feel so fucking lucky...

I hope to share more eventually. 

Either way, because I have a lot to think about, I won't be doing much chilling during the remainder of my vacation.

Thanks for continuing to read Abysitter.com. 

And for continuing to contribute... especially now.

C-wis

Jesterbaby: First Time

[CWIS'S NOTE]: Jesterbaby is an 18yo collegebaby from Virginia. He isstraight, straight up, and is looking for friends. This story is about his first time meeting up with another ABDL. Anyone else remember their first time? 

Jesterbaby: First Time...

A couple months ago, I went to visit a girl I met and talked with for a long time on Fetlife. She was really nice, and only a year older than me. While I was still seventeen years old, I packed up my little Honda Civic and headed North West 400 miles to meet a girl that I have never met before.

I spent eight hours driving in some of the worst weather conditions imaginable on some of the worst roads in the country. I had never driven this far, and thus I was not prepared for the inevitable back ache that came without hesitation every hour of driving. The only good thing was that if I got out of my car and walked around the pain went away. This still never stopped me from continuing my journey to see the first girl on Fetlife, and to have some of my first sexual experiences.

Driving the PA turnpike has to be the worst road ever. I never imagined the toll costing me fifteen dollars; then again, I never imagined having to pay for the PA turnpike and the for the Ohio turnpike right after that. I really thought the tolls were only 75 cents, I guess it really shows how young I really am.

When I got into town I called her up, and I decided to play a joke on her. She answered the phone. “Hey, this is Brian. I'm sorry, but I had second thoughts... I decided not to come.” 

She responded “What? No way!!" (Evidently, for a second she believed me, but then must have realized that I was joking.)

“Just kidding, I am here, see you in five.”

My destination brought me to a small college in Ohio called Oberlin. Immediately upon arrival, I noticed that it was a pretty small and pretty liberal college. (Later, after learning from my friend that they had a separate dorm building for transgender, I was able to confirm that). Let’s just say that they are so liberal that they have white albino squirrels instead of the normal brown squirrel...

I tell you, the trip was definitely worth the drive. 

I met my friend shortly after arriving. I was trying to act all cool, but the excitement of meeting her was too overwhelming to try to hide and act inconspicuous. She recognized me almost immediately and we both met for the first time with a huge hug that didn’t seem to ever end. When I first saw her, I really did have one of those Oh God, what have I gotten myself into kind of moments, but that quickly left me when she gave me a huge hug. When I saw her, she was wearing a bikini top under a see through shirt and a really short skirt. She looked pretty cute though, just as cute as I imagined. 

I took my stuff back to her dorm room and then it was off to find a place to hide my car for the weekend. On the computer she was able to pull up the appropriate spots that I was allowed to park so I wouldn’t have my car towed. 

When I parked my car, I grabbed my bag of toys (basically just diapers, I didn’t really want to pack a lot of stuff the first time around). When we got to her room, the first thing she did was take off her shirt. I was surprised at how quickly her clothing came off after that, and soon I found myself in my underwear with her on top of me without anything on. I still miss that feeling of having her sitting/laying on top of me... it brings back really nice memories every time I think about it. 

We played around a while, and then she took me by surprise by tickling me. I am extremely ticklish all around, and she really took advantage of me with that. I would try to fight back, but in the end, I would let her pin me down and tickle the pee out of me. It was definitely fun.

After that, we basically just took a nap. It was hot, both of us were really tired, and I had one killer headache, so a nap was the best option. This was the first time I had slept with a girl in my arms while the girl was completely naked. It made me feel pretty good inside. 

When we woke up, she took me out to dinner. Since it was Friday, all the cafeterias were closed and thus we headed over to the pizzeria for a nice old-fashioned personal pizza. She told me that since I was nice enough to spend the money on gas and tolls to visit her, she would be happy to pay for my food for the weekend, which was great because I wasn’t able to earn all the money that I expected on needing to complete the trip. The pizza was great, and by the time we finished, the rain storm that the forecasters had promised had made its way into town. It was pouring down rain when we left and by the time we got to her dorm, we were completely soaked. When we arrived in her dorm room, both of us stripped down to our skivvies, her more than me. It was time for bed by now and her roommate was back from her classes so we didn’t play around tonight. 

I really didn’t sleep much that night, two reasons, one was that I was extremely hot, and two was that the little bed she slept on wasn’t really big enough for the two of us. I pretty much woke up spooning her and it was nice to wake up with her in my arms. The next morning, we got up, got dressed and headed to the bathroom to get ready for the day. Being at a college with co-ed bathrooms, it was just one bathroom to be shared with the whole floor of college students. That was pretty interesting because I had to put my contacts in, wash my face, and brush my teeth while another girl next to me in just a towel did the same. It seemed like my naked, towel-hidden body was a hit with all the college girls because they kept checking me out. 

We went to a local diner for breakfast that she suggested. We had chocolate chip pancakes and sausage and fruit and it was absolutely scrumptious and filling. Then we headed back to the dorm to shower and play around. I have never showered with anybody before, except for maybe when I was a really little kid and it was quicker for me to jump in the shower with my dad than for me to get a bath. Still, we both went to the showers with only our towels and we got into the shower together. I held her close while we were both wet and cold, but my erection kept me from getting too close in fear that it might slip inside of her. (I had already told her that intercourse was not an option for this visit). When we were done showering we went back to her dorm and that is when I pulled out the diapers. Not only have I only been diapered once by another person, but she had never worn a diaper other than Goodnites and she was really excited to wear a diaper. I decided that since she had never worn a diaper before, I would diaper her first. The only problem with this was that by the time I got to being diapered, I would have to deal with the inevitable erection, which has always been a problem with guys and diapers. After being diapered, we put our clothes back on; she chose to wear a dress that was rather see through and pretty much showed off her diaper underneath. It was pretty cool and it turned me on. 

We left her room and headed for a walk around campus in our diapers. Then we headed to Walmart, although I wasn’t quite sure what we were going to get at Walmart. Actually when we got there, a storm was threatening, so we jumped back into my car and headed back to her room. 

We didn’t really get to use our diapers. We tried to drink a lot, but that didn’t really help. She took a nap in my arms, and then I fell asleep as well. When we woke up, I was ready to play, but she wasn’t so ready to take off her diaper. Evidently, she enjoyed wearing the diaper more than she thought! 

After I finally convinced her to take off the diaper, we showered again to clean off and then headed to bed for some play. (Sorry guys, but I still don’t really want to go into a lot of detail with what we did. I mean, it was pretty much everything you could imagine, short of intercourse, so you can use your imaginations for that part.)

Afterwards, we cleaned up, slept a little and then got dressed. She put the same skirt on that she wore the first day, except she didn’t wear any underwear, which was sort of weird in my mind, but it was still pretty sexy. She convinced me to wear one of her shirts, which I told her in my opinion was a girl shirt - although, looking back, I really shouldn’t have put up that much of an argument... I mean, she was my mommy after all, I think she knows what I should, and shouldn’t wear - not to mention nobody at that school cares what I look like.

When we decided to head out for dinner, we met up with her friend who told us that there was a play that we should check out. So, we stopped at a small cafeteria and got chicken and sausage gumbo soup (which was absolutely delicious) and ate it while we walked around trying to find this play. We never found the play, though we did find a 60s era dance going on, which was sold out, plus I didn’t wear my dancing shoes and her friend wasn’t wearing any shoes to begin with. We went back to her dorm room, where we slept some more, and then had a really long Skype chat with my friend from home. My lady friend had decided to spook my friend back home and not wear anything to cover her breasts the whole time we were talking. (She thought it was funny because my friend back home had never seen boobs before, other than porn, and he was a little freaked out by the awkwardness of the whole thing). 

Finally, it was really time for us to go to bed, where we slept until about noon the next day. Unfortunately, my weekend seemed to come to an end almost as soon as it started. We got up and got a shower. That’s where I was in the bathroom, wearing nothing but a towel, brushing my teeth, when some girl walked in to wash her hands and started checking me out. I guess she must have thought I am pretty good looking, because she definitely took her time washing her hands.Then my friend got me off again. I told her that I have never had a blow job, so she was happy to show me what it feels like. (Ok, fine, I will give you that, but nothing else). 

We had breakfast at one of the large cafeterias and then we took my stuff to my car so I could leave. It was pretty hard to say goodbye after such a great weekend, so I just gave her a kiss and headed home. It might have been 2pm by now, but it felt like it was pretty early in the day from the darkness of the clouds and I really had no motivation to drive 8 hours to get home. It certainly felt like a longer drive home - probably because I didn’t really want to go home, plus it was much later in the afternoon than when I drove up there. I didn’t have any cash to pay the PA turnpike toll and the guy had to write me a ticket to pay it when I got home. Then my GPS took me off the turnpike and through West Virginia. I stopped at small store to use the restroom and grab a Red Bull and when I got back in the car, my GPS had lost its signal and I had no idea where I was going. If there is one place to lose signal, it is not in the middle of nowhere in West Virginia. I was able to get on the road that I was supposed to be on and continued my way home through the most swervy and scary road imaginable. I stopped in Ruckersville to use the restroom and when I looked at the front bumper of my car, I noticed about a thousand and one bugs plastered my car.

Since I got such a late start, I didn’t get home until about ten, which was good because I didn’t want my parents to be up when I arrived home. I don’t think they would have approved of the mark that she left on my neck. I told her, no hickeys above the shoulders, but she didn’t listen. Now I wish she gave me more! 

All and all, it was a fantastic weekend and I would do it again if I had the chance. I really had a good time and I am planning my next trip in October, that should be much more fun because I started a list of things I want to do/try and I am going to bring a lot more stuff for playing with her.

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Hall of Shame: Probation

Ex-firefighter gets probation for sex crimes - Longmont Times-Call

Below, a story about a Colorado firefighter who pleaded guilty to diapering an 11 yo after, in his words, "a year ago I let a strange sexual fetish take over my life..."

This young man received eighteen months work release and eight years sex offender probation.
Remember, folks: actual children have NO PLACE in the ABDL lifestyle.

Not even when you're marketing ABDL diapers... or boys training pants... rawr, tiger!

The full story:
http://www.timescall.com/news/longmont-local-news/ci_18487104

Hall of Shame: Three Years

From the mobile version of the New York Post... an update on the story about the young dude in OK who pleaded guilty to tricking women into babysitting him by pretending to be autistic.
Part of the honor code, folks: if you have to pretend to be special, you're not.
Full (mobile) story:
http://m.nypost.com/p/news/national/diaper_wearing_man_sentenced_oklahoma_7KBburx7Df62nUaAwJu5TJ