Baby Pictures: LittleC

Up today I have some new pics from Chuck, aka Little C! He's appeared on Abysitter.com many times. You can also find him on Twitter, where his handle is @littlec420, and he's on Fetlife, as well. Chuck is 25 and lives in Colorado. 

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Hall of Shame: Keep It 18+

Note: I know there are some people in the community who strongly dislike these types of posts, because they feel that they don't give our community a 'good look'. To that I'll say, the number of people in the community who don't understand why 18+ is imperative is still too high to stop posting these, so... here we are... 

Up today we've got a story out of Michigan.

Tyler Ryan Lowis, 22, is accused to raping a teen, forcing the teen to use diapers, a sippy cup, and etc., and videotaping the encounters.

This follows his uploading pictures of infants and toddlers to his Dropbox account.

We have no way to know whether the photos were of diaper-clad children - something we all know doesn't mix with ABDL, right? Right? - and we can't be sure whether Tyler and the teen were two ABDL's engaged in ageplay, or if this was something more.

What we do know, however, is that if Tyler had kept it 18+, with respect to both photos and meet-ups, he'd probably be in the clear right now.

I see so many comments on Tumblr, Reddit, and other places from people talking about how they're not abusing minors, just mentoring them.

That didn't work to keep Tyler out of jail - he's facing life in prison for some of the charges, now.

Remember: depending on what state you are in, the age of consent is 16, 17, of 18. Keeping it 18+ is a way to avoid any illegal conduct involving minors from other states, minors using out-of-state communications to contact you in-state, and etc. 

Also, 18+ for photos and video. No exceptions. 

From MLive.com.

Q&A With Min

Up today I have a Q&A from someone new! Min is 33 and lives in Colorado Springs. He and his girlfriend are looking for some new friends - and they even bring a nursery to the table! Min included some adorable pictures, below, and I'll have more from him in a few days! Thanks, Min! 

Q&A With Min

Name/Nick: Min/Min
Age: 33
City/State/Country:  Colorado Springs/Colorado/U.S.
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? AB/DL

When did you first realize you were ABDL?  

Around 7 or 8 years old, when my younger sister and several of my cousins were born (we all lived in the same city at the time), I remember seeing them in diapers and wanting the same. I moved around alot around that time and didn't have much time to think about/act on my desire to wear diapers until much later on in my teens when we finally settled down and my parents bought a house. I first got online when I was 14, around '96 and within a few months found about about AB's, DL's and adult sized diapers.


What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?  

I remember trying to wear my sister's or cousins disposable diapers but of course they didn't fit, a few times I put one on and put my underwear on over it but it still never fit. When I was in my teens I would purchase adult diapers at the drugstores or mostly order them online with my parents credit cards and would lie and tell them it was for computer parts or something similar.


Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?  

My parents were never nosy or went thru my things when I was younger so I never expected them to open my mail but when I was in school they opened a box that came for me, I'm guessing because it said something about "medical" supplies on the box. Afterwards they searched my room and found my stash of diapers, plastic pacts, pacifiers, baby bottles etc, thankfully they didn't think/know how to look on my computer. They confronted me when I came back from school and there was a huge fight, they tried to send me to a therapist because they thought I had some sort of mental problem but I refused to go. After what seemed like months of avoiding and not speaking to each other we finally started talking again and it was never brought up again.  My younger sister also knows but never said anything or made an big deal over it.

Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle? Please explain.  

When I was younger I has several binge purge cycles. Now I look back and wish I had never thrown all that stuff away, mostly harder to get items like custom made clothing. I had a major purge after I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years who knew about my fetish and participated, I had a nursery similar to the one I have now including a crib and got rid of everything. Now that I have accepted my AB side and found someone who accepts and fully understands it as well I think any more purges should be a thing of the past.


For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?  

During college I lived at home, at the time I was too scared to wear outside of my house, college was pretty normal for me.


How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?  

I've told 2 of my ex girlfriends about it around the 3 to 4 month mark, none of them took it negatively, one participated and one wouldn't, but didn't mind if I wore anytime I wanted. A few of my friends found out, mostly because of the room noone was allowed in (nursery) and a couple somehow found my Twitter, they all acted like it wasn't a big deal though. My current girlfriend was already a AB before I met her, we have also known each other for a very long time (met during our teens) I'm sure she's the one I'll be spending the rest of my life with ☺

Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?  

I don't believe I was actually abused, I know I was spanked alot for things I would never spank a child for, such as not perfect grades in school (as in B's and C's), one time the neighbors heard/saw and called the police, I denied that I was hit but I remember it continuing well into middle school. I know my parents never used that type of punishment on my younger sister which I know some people may resent but I was actually happy she never had a go thru all that when she was younger. Maybe it did have some type of effect because I am a AB and she isn't, I do also find it a bit strange I enjoy getting spanked as an adult now. 


For the older generation, please tell us more about what it was like being ABDL before social networking. I will be looking for the perspectives of members in their 40s, 50s, and even higher. 

I remember feeling like I was very alone, wondering why I liked diapers so much and if I would just spend the rest of my life alone. When I went online and first found out about AB/DL's I couldn't believe what I was seeing, I felt happy, relief that I wasn't alone and the possibility of having friends who shared my interest. I don't think I slept at all that night, staying online and reading/looking things up.

For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.  

I was around 14, I went online and just searched for "diapers" after a few pages of results I stumbled across DPF, I remember that was the first thing I saw regarding AB/DL's, went thru all the other pages they linked to but the only one I really remember is DPF.


Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.  

I enjoy all the aspects of the AB lifestyle, spending little time with my girlfriend as both of us being little or one of us switching for the other and being mommy or daddy, being punished (spanking, restrained, enemas/suppositories & diapers and being forced to wear girly clothes) or just cuddling and watching a movie or playing games.


What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?  

It used to be about 50/50, lately though when I'm in little space I don't think of sex much, unless there is some type of BDSM/punishment involved, then my mind pretty much goes straight to having sex. 

If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.  

I usually always start regressing and becoming extremely submissive as soon as a diaper is put on me. I've spent several days upto a week of being diapered/little and almost always wear diapers to bed at night. I find it relaxing as my job is pretty stressful and helps me unwind. I also used to have a sleeping problem but I find it helps me fall asleep at night.   


Don't let yourself be limited by my questions. If you have anything else at all that you would like to say please feel free to say it here...

I'm always looking to make new friends, it seems as if there aren't that many AB's where I live (Colorado). I'd love to meet other AB's, even if it's just a hang out, it'd be nice not having to put everything away and lock up our nursery every time someone comes over. We're not looking for any mommies or daddies to take care of us but would still love to be friends, and the same for any AB boys or girls 😀  My twitter is @Kmin3603478 & email is k.min10@yahoo.com 

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Q&A With James or Alexander "Xander"

Up today I have a Q&A from James, or Alexander "Xander". You may know him from Tumblr, where he goes by the handle KinkyDude93. He and I are frequent text buddies, so I get to see his pics all the time, but I learned a little from his Q&A. Enjoy! 

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Name/Nick: James or Alexander “Xander”
Age: 23
City/State/Country: Miami, FL, USA
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other? AB/DL

When did you first realize you were ABDL?

Early on in first grade, while no one was home I tried on one of my sister’s pull-ups. When I slid it on, I loved the way it felt. Later in the year I had a tutor for reading. I was a slow reader and still am… My parents got me hooked on phonics. Do they even make that anymore? Anyways I remember wanting my tutor to put me in a diaper and babysit me. She was so hot! I wanted her to be my mommy. I didn’t know it yet, but I was definitely an ABDL. It was many years later when I got a laptop I discovered there were other people like me. The good ole days when the deeker website was around. I miss that site.

What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?

As a child I would wait for my parents to leave the house then went straight for the pull-ups.

Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?

Nope, but some of my friends know. The first person reacted negatively, but we were still friends. We just never spoke of it again. Besides that one time, everyone has been cool about it.

Have you dealt with the shame and regret that is the binge/purge cycle?

Of course, every now and then I’ll want to throw away my diapers.

For collegebabies/DLs, did this interest affect your college experiences? If so, how?

Being an ABDL really affects my focus on school. I’d much rather pamp up and get comfy than study. On multiple occasions I put diapers before school, but I’m still doing all right.

How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?

Same as my last response really. I used to lock myself in my room and be super unproductive. I still do it from time to time just not as bad as before. If I have plans, I go out. If I don’t, I try to pamp up.

Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?

My dad was always working, so maybe? I honestly think I was jealous of all the attention my sister was getting. I was no longer the center of attention.

Some people have pointed out their observation that a larger-than-average number of multiple birth babies (twins, etc.) rep the ABDL lifestyle. If you are one of these, please explain what effect, if any, you feel this may have had on your ABDLishness.

I definitely think this affected me. If I didn’t have a sister, I would have never been curious to try on a diaper. At least that’s what I think.

Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.

I’m kinky. I’ll let your imagination wonder. ;)

What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?

Sometimes 100%, but it ranges from 0-100%. It depends on the mood. I don’t need diapers to get off. I like diversity so I change it up all the time.

If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.

I think my pictures can do a better job of portraying my feelings than my actual words.

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Resources

If you're a millennial who fought for Bernie Sanders, but still voted for Hillary Clinton because you knew she'd work to protect the oppressed class and you put that above your own anger at the DNC or your need to win, YOU are the real MVP.

If you're a straight white male (or female) and knew that a Trump presidency might do more for you than a Clinton one, but you STILL voted for Clinton because you have compassion for those who are marginalized by the RNC, YOU are the real MVP.

I'll even give a shout out to the people I know who snuck behind that curtain and pulled the lever for a Trump/Pence presidency, but didn't share that with anyone before or after the vote because people they know and love are in the groups who will be marginalized over the next four years.

We all got a chance to find out a lot about the people we are friends with this election season. So many people learned details about their family and friends that they probably wish they never knew. How many friendships have ended in the last 24 hours? How many family members aren't on speaking terms after this election?

The silver lining in this cloud is that more Americans voted for inclusion than voted for exclusion: 59,796,267 to 59,589,809. The electoral college determines our president, and we have to let the system work. But make no mistake: when it comes to sheer numbers, it was close, but there were more of us who voted for the candidate who backed the LGBT+ community, Muslims, immigrants, Black Lives Matter, and etc. than those who voted for the candidate who wants to stack the deck against these groups.

Remember that: we were in the majority. Keep that in mind as you continue the fight for equality over the next four years, and let's build on those numbers, person by person, one person at a time.

Each generation is better than the one before, and with each comes greater acceptance of those who are different than us. I've been inspired by my friends who, despite having no real personal reason to do so, chose to support a candidacy they disliked but knew would work to protect those that they love. Thank you.

I know a lot of us here in the U.S. are feeling the sting of a Donald Trump victory, especially since his running mate, Mike Pence, has such a long history of anti-gay actions to his name. Here are some resources for anyone feeling particularly upset. This is from the Human Rights Campaign... 

Remember... stay padded, stay safe. 

Just An Article That Made Me Giggle...

Just an article that made me giggle. Something tells me this lady bumped into one of us and has no clue. I envy people sometimes who are that vanilla...

http://www.examiner.net/news/20161101/diane-mack-this-is-season-for-hiding-your-identity

MTV: True Life ABDL

Did anyone else catch True Life on MTV last night? If you did you know what I'm talking about: an entire hour-long episode dedicated to adult babies, including Daddy Lee, Robert, and our very own Xander! 

I felt like the producers did an amazing job portraying ABDL in a positive light. There was zero humor at our expense; if you've watched us portrayed on talk shows from Dr. Phil to Jerry Springer you know there's always condescension mixed in with a bit of concern and curiosity. 

There wasn't a lot of humor, period, actually. The episode explained the real-life issues each member of our community was having, including documenting Robert's journey from Tennessee to Kentucky to live as a full-time little. (The episode also featured a female ABDL who dabbles in BDSM and struggles to find the right partner, and a straight male ABDL who's need to be a little tends to put a bit of pressure on his marriage.) 

Sorry I didn't get an alert posted for y'all to give you a heads up. You can watch the 'sneak peak' here. And for cable subscribers, the entire episode is available online - just log in using your television login info. If Daddy Lee gets a free link, he'll send it our way. 

Great job representing us, guys!

By the way, you can find Daddy Lee (with Robert) and Xander on Tumblr: 

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A Padded Visitor to the Boat? Yes!

As most of my readers probably know, I relocated to upstate New York in August, purchasing a cabin cruiser and moving aboard. I spent most of the summer and fall living the #boatlife, but while I've been pretty much 24/7 since day one, I've had very little time to actually regress - and I missed it! 

Since the cooler weather has invaded, it seems vanillas aren't flocking to the boat as much - or maybe the novelty has just worn off. Either way, I've started to get nights to myself here or there, and you know what that means: vanillas gone, diapers ON! 

I spent one night padded up on the bench on the bow of my boat, and loved every second of it. (Diapered stargazing? Fuck yea!) I've also spent a lot of time crawling around the salon and cabin, letting 'Little Cwis' come out - trying to make up for lost time. Can't wait until next summer, when one berth is transformed into a crib, a ball pit is (hopefully) added. Let the diapered cruising parties commence! 

In the meantime, I have started to reach out on Diaper-Bois and Fetlife in the hopes of meeting new people from the local community, and - so far - I'm loving every second!

Some of you may know that I previously lived in an area rife with diaper cliques and a shit ton of diaper drama. Just trying to meet someone local there was a fucking production, and I went through that bullshit for almost ten years. 

Up north I've already met two people within a week of each other, and have plans to meet a few more in the coming days/weeks - and, thusfar, it's all been drama-free. 

When I left this place ten years ago our community was virtually non-existent - it was part of the reason I decided to move. I relocated to a city where the diapering should have been amazing, but was met with rudeness and resistance - I found controlling diaper daddies and diaper drama from the get go. Upon returning here I find that upstate New York people are coming out of their shells - the community has grown, and people are beginning to meet up with each other - and nobody is excluded. That's what's up! (Plus I'm just a few hours via train from NYC - already have plans to meet someone from there, and do a meet up in Buffalo, and... it goes on and on.)

I. Love. Meeting. Local. Littles. 

So anyway, I met up with a local college student about week ago - my first actual ABDL to visit the boat, woo hoo! This kid was hella chill, and we even managed to sneak in some photos. Check out the pics I've posted below, and follow him on Tumblr for more of his adorable ass...

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close that, because it won't be needed on this boat.

Naptime... 

Nights are getting chilly on the lake,

so a full footed sleeper in in order for bedtime...  

A shot from the bridge.

Boat rule #1: no damp bottoms in the captain's chair! 

A little diapered hike by the lake, to round out the weekend... 

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Q&A With BabyBenjieBoy

Up today I've got a Q&A and some adorable pics from Baby Benjie Boy. You may know him from Tumblr (benjieminaj91.tumblr.com) and Twitter (@benjieminaj91)! Thanks, Benjamin!  

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Q&A With BabyBenjieBoy  

Name/Nick: benjamin morales/babybenjieboy
Age: 25/ but act like 2 year old
City/State/Country: lancaster, pa, usa
AB/DL/BabyFur/Other: abdl

When did you first realize you were ABDL?  

I first realize i was abdl is when i was i little kid. Like when i was 6. I always try to get back in my baby diapers and my old baby onsie. Always try to play in a playpen. When i get to high school i found out by close friend about the abdl world. He show me on the internet and that I'm not the only one. Since then my life changed.  


What steps did you take to get your diaper 'fix' as a child and/or teen?  

i had a neighbor who knows about my love for diapers and being baby. Since he baby sit me when parents weren't home. He always bought me diapers and put me in them.  


Do your parents and/or siblings know about you and diapers? If so, please explain how, and how they reacted?  

No one in my family knows. Or i guess.  

How has this fetish affected your social life and/or dating? Married life? Parenting?  

Well in my social single life is hard to find someone who is approving. Also who wants a boy to baby. Cause guy or daddy wants a girl to baby. If they did want a boy it has to be skinny and buff.  


Some experts believe that we become the way we are because of traumas experienced at an early age, including abuse and/or neglect. Do your life experiences bear this out?  

I have a great childhood. But when i turn 13 i suddenly felt less attention then i did when i kid and baby.  


For the little dunces, please tell us about what it was like to discover this fetish/lifestyle on the Internet. Please be at least 18 at the time of writing, but be specific about what age you discovered it, what sites helped you, and keep this part PG for obvious reasons.  

When i was 16 saw pics first on tumblr and google images. I was like wow i couldn't stop looking at pics and videos. Then join yahoo chat and skype for asking question made friends online to help me and bring my baby side out more more.    

Do your interests involve a subset of this community, such as babyfurs, diaper disciplinarians, wet/messy, sissybabies etc.? Please tell us about it. I won't even try to be specific here; just tell us what you think people should know.  

I love wet and messy diapers. It makes me feel so much more of baby. It great feeling of being little and helpless.  Diaper disciplinarian i think is great.  Is someone helping and making you more use to being in diapers.  


What % of your sexual activities and/or masturbation incorporate diapers? Has this caused problems for you?  

When diaper up i always get hard. So my percentage is 90%. 😋  it kinda cause little problems when moving around.  


If you get into the regression aspect of ABDL please tell us more about that. If you do not, and you have feelings about being lumped into a fetish involving it, explain how it makes you feel.  

i defiantly get into regression. I never try it with someone. It been my dream to be regress by someone. I think it can helped bring more of my little side out.  


ANYTHING ELSE TO ADD? 

Im definitely looking for daddy or mommy. My contact info is benjie100532@gmail.com babybenjieboy on tumblr and twitter is benjieminaj91

TeddyCon

I posted about some changes in my life last month. At that point I was hoping I'd be able to attend TeddyCon - I'd bought my tickets months ago, and had offers of car pools and room shares - thanks for that, by the way. To be honest, I'd looked forward to this since I started counting down to it the moment I left Capcon in March! 

In the end, I wasn't able to make it - a combination of boating expenses and commitments here saw to that. Between messages all weekend from folks wondering if I was around, and text updates from friends, I felt like I was there - not sure if that made things harder or easier haha. It sounds like everyone had a really good time. Grr! 

TeddyCon was the grand prize sponsor for my 2016 photo contest, and I was looking forward to meeting the sponsors, and the winners, at this event. Sorry that I couldn't make it - looking forward to TeddyCon 2017, and I'll be at Capcon 2017 as well. 

If anyone has any photos that they are authorized to share, or stories, from TeddyCon, email me! And if you haven't been, I'm told tickets for next year will be on sale soon, check them out online!

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